Hi!
Might I suggest to be upfront, simply take ger aside and say politely hey how are you, I kind of wanted to talk to you. I know we both might have gotten off to an awkward start, I am sorry for that. But I have to say this. I feel very conscious and odd when people look at me. I might be mistaken but I think I feel your gaze too. Can you like try not to do that? I dont mean to offend you, its just making me feel very odd. Thats it
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molten haven
shell aspen
I would but I don't like to talk to people that I'm not so close to. And I would regret saying that because a- that's kinds rude😭 but I do wanna say that b- she's also an introvert so idk how she would react c- i don't think it's a good idea idk anymore
but thanks for the advice, maybe i might say smth like that. one day
molten haven
What do you dislike more? The current state you are in or the statement that you can deliver polite and firmly?
Had she not been an introvert or a girl, would you nit have said it to the human?
shell aspen
What do you dislike more? The current state you are in or the statement that you...
tbh idk
shell aspen
Had she not been an introvert or a girl, would you nit have said it to the human...
it really doesnt matter if what gender, the person is or personality. ik imma regret saying anything to anyone like that.
and i dont wanna experience that, and yes im scared
molten haven
I would but I don't like to talk to people that I'm not so close to. And I would...
Just do it
lol
Not that deep
shell aspen
Not that deep
bud, im sorry but i'm not you
embarassment isn't afraid of me, unlike you
molten haven
wow so easy
Yea it is
shell aspen
go up to them and just stare at their fucking face??
molten haven
You probably scroll TikTok for most of your day and eat horrible food, probably do drugs and do nothing with your life. Your dopamine is cooked and it will continue to be cooked unless you do high “risk” activities.
Have this mindset and it will be easy
molten haven
go up to them and just stare at their fucking face??
Yea how else do you interact with someone
shell aspen
Yea how else do you interact with someone
you speak to them..?
molten haven
you speak to them..?
Yea go up to her
shell aspen
Have this mindset and it will be easy
well i dont have that mindset
molten haven
well i dont have that mindset
Then think you have it
Then you will
If you can’t even go up to a person and talk to them what does this say about society
shell aspen
Then you will
i mentally might will, not physical, socially nor spiritually.
shell aspen
If you can’t even go up to a person and talk to them what does this say about so...
?
bro im socially awkward
shell aspen
Probably because you spend time scrolling
thats not true tho.
molten haven
thats not true tho.
So why are you socially awkward
shell aspen
So why are you socially awkward
because i dont like talking to people in person?
and staring at them?
molten haven
because i dont like talking to people in person?
Because you get enough dopamine from screens and from talking to people online you don’t need it from real life interactions*
shell aspen
Because you get enough dopamine from screens and from talking to people online y...
maybe bc i dont feel like talking to people, im not close to?
molten haven
maybe bc i dont feel like talking to people, im not close to?
Why?
shell aspen
because its embrassing?
molten haven
No it’s because your brain is cooked from social media so that makes you awkward
Go to someone who isn’t on their phone and you will see the difference
Cheap dopamine from social media destroys every social aspect of you
shell aspen
Go to someone who isn’t on their phone and you will see the difference
half of them are cringy asf even without social media
molten haven
half of them are cringy asf even without social media
That’s just cope
They are cringy but they can talk to anyone
You stick to yourself
molten haven
Delete your cheap dopamine apps and improve your life
Do hard stuff
Go to the gym, read books, and go on runs
Play a sport
Don’t eat shit
shell aspen
i do 4/5 you said
molten haven
i do 4/5 you said
I doubt it
shell aspen
you cant just imrpove your life
molten haven
i do 4/5 you said
What ones do you do
shell aspen
Do hard stuff
1
shell aspen
Go to the gym, read books, and go on runs
2
shell aspen
Play a sport
3
shell aspen
Don’t eat shit
4
shell aspen
or maybe i do those activities with my friends??
molten haven
or maybe i do those activities with my friends??
So you don’t play a team sport ?
What sport do you play and how often do you go to the gym
shell aspen
What sport do you play and how often do you go to the gym
football (soccer), twice/once a week
molten haven
football (soccer), twice/once a week
You’re on a team for soccer?
shell aspen
You’re on a team for soccer?
nah free play
alr why not we just shut up, thanks for the advice.