#She says she still loves me

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finite helm
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I haven't spoke in this server for a while But—

I am (M15), Just call me Emmett.
My GF (now ex), just call her Z, is (F15), she lives in Oregon, I live in Kansas, we met online and dated for 5 days, everything to me felt amazing and to her, but suddenly today she said we were breaking up, I had my little mental and physical Breakdown, then I texted her some things, she said she still loves me and she doesn't know how to do long distance well, I talked more with her, she said shes not comfortable with being friends with her ex, I said I understand that and we talked a bit more on tiktok, she said shes broken and other things she did to herself that I will not say for her privacy, she also said she still love me alot again, but she doesn't know how to do long distance, I agree, and now shes giving me the "cool" or "okay" short responses treatment, I will not give up.

Im giving her space for now but what should I do? I will not give up on her.

finite helm
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I need dire advice here

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I still want to get back with her but for now I just need to get on a good level with her so she vents things to me and talks to me

wild silo
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i think you just gotta respect the fact that she cant handle long distance. i get her case too, sometimes people need physical touch or to constantly SEE their partners and be with them in person. i know its hard. maybe you never felt a true sense of love with her but a sense of belonging and maybe you can find other who make you feel what she did and more. what about this girl made you fall in love with her?

finite helm
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but after 10 minutes, I calmed myself down and told myself I will fix this

wild silo
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i think if you push too hard she'll definitely pull and run away

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so just push a little by little, and if its very obvious shes no interested then you gotta let go

finite helm
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I send a text last night that I loved her and I could help her with long distance since I've dealt with it before, and I hope she consider it, after like 20 minutes of seeing it she sent a thumbs up, I sent that I would never look or feel for another woman other than her, she said give her time and I said "Take your time" with a heart then she sent a thumbs up, this morning I sent "Good Morning" she sent "Morning", I asked how she was, she said she was sick, I said why like an idiot, she said she had a fever, I said i hope she got better, she said "Mhm"

I send her a tiktok and she replies with a "Cool"
and I sent "Very cool indeed" with a thumbs up, what do i do now? I'm blank in the head, I want to give her more time but I feel if i give her more time she might lose interest

last olive
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You can't force anyone to be in a relationship with you

finite helm
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never said I wanted to force her to date me

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never did

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I decline

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I may want to try again but Im not going to force that on her

sweet dragon
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Literally a 5 day relationship

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Are you serious

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Give up

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Imagine if she breaks up in a week

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You can’t expect her to stay for longer