I don't know what to do

[primal lotus]

This is the first time we haven’t texted in a whole day

I told her we can call tomorrow morning but now idk if I got time 😭

Well we planned to call tomorrow morning

That’s one of the last things she texted me was saying sure to me asking her if she wants to call

[rough mango]

dont call her tomorrow all your efforts of not texting her won't matter if u call her tomorrow

💔💔

[rough mango]

WHY DID U EVEN ASK HER TO CALL

u made it look like ur dying to call her

[primal lotus]

Cause I wanted to talk to her and it was before all this not texting her stuff 😭

[rough mango]

🤷🏻‍♀️😭

okay tomorrow morning dont call her

and say "something came up sorry _

but u can text her if u really wanna talk to her

js dont call her pls

[primal lotus]

I mean something really came up so yeah that’s fine

[rough mango]

cuz all ur efforts= 0 if u call her

[rough mango]

thankGod something came up

🏃🏻‍♀️🦦

[primal lotus]

As I said I wanna have that conversation with her 😭

But idk when or how

[rough mango]

which conversation wth

DIDN'T U ALREADY HAVE SO MANY CONVERSATIONS WITH HER IMMATURE SELF 😭😭😭

[primal lotus]

Like what could realistically happen between us in the foreseeable future and how I feel. Just that stuff

[rough mango]

don't say that

don't have that conversation 😭😭

WHATS THE POINT OF HAVING THAT CONVERSATION

[primal lotus]

Wiping away false hopes

And clarity

In my eyes at least

[rough mango]

she'll accept it and just lead you on..

by still keeping u as her last option but she'd stop saying that ur an option and probably even stop talking about her crush

her not talking about her crush, and not calling u an option, still won't change the fact that she has a crush on another guy and ur her last option

honestly ig im done w this

i know its difficult, and everyone keeps telling you what to do but you don't get it

i guess you'll just hurt yourself to the point you'll realize its not worth it anymore 🙏🏻

[primal lotus]

🙂

[tulip wigeon]

@primal lotus lets say hypothetically you do call w her tomorrow to have a conversation

what are the questions that you're going to ask her?

[merry meadow]

thats what im saying like

ur being so resistant to all our advice

its like ur denying all help

[rough mango]

atp js close this post 🥀🥀 like whats even the point

[tulip wigeon]

lets not jump into conclusions yet, he needs some closure if he ever decides to walk away completely

we'll see what he wants to ask and what outcome hes expecting out of this convo

then proceed accordingly

u guys also need to keep in mind that he can choose to whether or not follow ur advices

if he does, good for him, and if he doesnt and fuck up his life? sucks for him 🤷‍♀️ aint yalls fault

i get that u guys are frustrated cause hes not listening to u, but coming from someone who has been in his place before, i know hes trying his best, hes just stuck in a cycle where he cant get out

as long as hes trying, thats what matters

[eternal flax]

Sometimes you don’t get closure from talking

[eternal flax]

Also he’s not trying to be resistant it’s hard to just not text someone you love

I know he wants to he just can’t

[primal lotus]

I would just ask her this: What could realistically happen between us in the near future? And please without false hopes and games

And with that she would either make a paragraph about well what could happen between us or she just says nothing will happen between us and that’s also an answer I’d accept because it’s direct

[primal lotus]

Im stuck between I should move on and if I move on there’ll be no chance for us

[primal lotus]

She didnt text me more than the question mark from yesterday

But I texted her

Waiting for a response now

[tulip wigeon]

Pretty solid question

Hope she answers truthfully 👍

[primal lotus]

As far as I know her she will

[tulip wigeon]

You also get to decide whether to trust her completely

So when the time comes, make the right decision

[primal lotus]

I do trust her completely

Always did, just with a little bit of scepticism

[primal lotus]

We texted for like 5 minutes and it feels like I am texting an ex girlfriend that ended the relationship because she got bored of me

Maybe it’s really time to pack it up

[merry meadow]

😱shocker

[eternal flax]

crazy work

[primal lotus]

Idk man… ever since I confessed I feel like our connection went downhill

[tulip wigeon]

@primal lotus any updates?

did you have convo with her yet

[primal lotus]

Nope, she fell asleep before we could call

[tulip wigeon]

girl flaked 💔

[primal lotus]

I mean it was 1 am for her and she had a volleyball game before

[tulip wigeon]

ohh nvm fair enough

[primal lotus]

I just won’t be able to call again till tomorrow evening 😭

And if she can’t then imma have to wait till next weekend…

Or I ask her over text but I don’t really wanna do that

[merry meadow]

go text her

its a good idea

[tulip wigeon]

try to do it tomorrow so it doesnt get pushed to next week

[rough mango]

no she'd lie on text

[merry meadow]

i was sarcastic

[primal lotus]

Yeah yeah I will

[primal lotus]

We’ve been texting for a bit now and now it’s like she broke up because we grew apart or smt and not because she was bored

[eternal flax]

you gotta text her like shes some random girl who wants u but ur not that interested

[primal lotus]

And how do I do that? 😭

I mean it’s literally the other way around

[primal lotus]

I feel like that would just make me not text her at all

[eternal flax]

idek

im just spitting ideas

[rough mango]

when u text her, write okay as "k", alright as "alr", if she said something nice or amazing just say "cool", write what are you doing baby as "wyd bitch", whenever she says something interesting, say "shutup lol", if she's telling u about her day, write "r u done? im bored lets do smth fun", when she's talking stop her and say "ugh ts is getting boring", when u gotta go or end the chat say "alr bye"

[primal lotus]

That would hurt my soul as much as it would hurt hers

[rough mango]

let it hurt until it doesn't hurt anymore

🔥🔥🔥🔥

and trust me she doesn't give a shit about you

she won't be hurt

she doesn't even care enough to call u when u both made plans

do u really think she still cares about u

[primal lotus]

Bro I just sent her a screenshot of me playing when I scheduled a session for tomorrow and she could play now and she acted disappointed

[rough mango]

WAIT I ACTUALLY KNOW WHAT TO DO RN

u should say "im gonna play with my girl best friend bye"

thiss won't hurt her

and this is not mean

🦦🦦🦦

[primal lotus]

My girl best friend is her?

[rough mango]

no its not her

we're talking about ur another girl best friend

she's imaginary

[primal lotus]

Yes it is, I literally don’t talk to any women

[rough mango]

thats ur imaginary girl best friend

calm down

and just tell her that

[rough mango]

🦦

[primal lotus]

My imaginary girl best friend can’t talk to me 😔

[rough mango]

she should know that u aren't just an option for her

u can talk to other people too

[primal lotus]

She knows that?

[rough mango]

let her know again🔥

[primal lotus]

Lemme enjoy my alone time, don’t gotta make something up for everything

And either way imma hop on with my friends later anyways

[eternal flax]

okay u had me until u said call her a bitch

that one might be a bit much lmfao

nah just say my friend wants to play

dont specify gender she will always assume its a girl

[primal lotus]

The ones before that are alright, then it escalates

[primal lotus]

Yeah that’s exactly what I did

[primal lotus]

How so? She knows I don’t talk to any, she just knows there’s one in my friend group

[eternal flax]

if you suddenly get distant and always have a "friend" to talk to

shes gonna think that

just dont tell anyone that ur just playing alone

keep this plan to urself

[primal lotus]

Yeah maybe

[eternal flax]

no maybe

she will

100%

[primal lotus]

Well when school starts on Monday imma talk to my friends way more often anyways. Should I then just say friend instead of friends when I play with them?

[eternal flax]

yeah

also if u have an activity status stuff turn it off so she cant see how many people ur playing with and what

[primal lotus]

Was always turned off

[tulip wigeon]

There are other ways to go around this 😭 you don’t gotta start treating other people like shit just because they treated you like one

That’s just stooping down to their level, and you dw to be as bad as them

Just don’t be an arse

If she asks to hang out with you, say no

You don’t owe her an explanation or anything else

And if she wants you to explain, it’s up to you whether you want to or not, just keep in mind that you guys are just friends, so she doesn’t have any right to demand you for answers

I don’t want him to lie just to make her jealous, i want him to be the better and more mature one

That’s how you win

[primal lotus]

We face revealed and she said I am adorable 😭

[rough mango]

crying

😭😭😭😭😭😭

i bet u folded

[tulip wigeon]

🧍‍♀️

good for you

[primal lotus]

Hell yeah I did 😭

But it’s getting better. She hasn’t said anything in a long time that gives me false hopes

[primal lotus]

Speaking bout that

She just told me she’s fucking lesbian. I don’t even know what to say or think at this point

[primal lotus]

Get your stuff we’re moving out

[primal lotus]

Idk if I should be happy or sad or hurt or whatever

The tension is gone, time to be good friends

[merry meadow]

things shes doing to u are so ridiculous its almost entertaining

[primal lotus]

Should write a comedy about it

[merry meadow]

YES

💀

like thats js crazy

cant wait till @rough mango sees this

[primal lotus]

Lowkey I thought she was bi but I never saw this coming 😭

[merry meadow]

u shouldve listened to us from the start dude

[primal lotus]

No one could’ve expected this bro

[merry meadow]

nah i mean like in general

[primal lotus]

Nah if I did and would’ve cut ties then I wouldn’t have her as a friend now

[rough mango]

LMAO

no i bet she's gonna text him again and she'll say she was just kidding

she'll also say, she's straight and really loves this poor guy

"i also wanna have a future with u"

🥀🥀🥀🥀

[primal lotus]

How much we betting?

Wait I’m fr scared she was just kidding 😭

Cause this kind of came out of the blue 😭

[tulip wigeon]

if i had a crush on a guy i'd never tell him that im lesbian what 😭

and i do have a crush on a guy

u dk how many times i tried to tell him that im straight LMFAO

point is, if she was 100% interested in you, she wouldn't pull this stunt

do with that info as you will

[merry meadow]

like he cares about wether shes interested or not

[tulip wigeon]

fr though i cant defend bro anymore

@primal lotus her telling you that she's lesbian is her way of softly rejecting you without hurting your feelings

cause a lot of girls dont like to reject guys directly

[primal lotus]

I have to fr fact check this

[tulip wigeon]

gang im a girl and i've lived 18 years

LOL

but sure, you can check with the others

like i said, you get to decide whether to trust somebody completely or not

[merry meadow]

yes because fact checking it will change everything completely

maybe u still have a short bro who knows keep going gng

shot

[primal lotus]

I want to know if she lied

Cause if she did I don’t want anything to do with her anymore

[merry meadow]

were like sisyphus pushing that big rock

[primal lotus]

Huh?

Idk if I wanna trust her. I mean she’s into wlw books and stuff and reposts tik toks with pretty lesbian stuff but like she never corrected me when talking about her crush and saying “he” and her crush has a pretty uncommon name for the US

[merry meadow]

why are u even talking to her anymore dude oh my god

😭what are u expecting out of this, why does this even matter

[primal lotus]

Cause it isn’t all about her loving me. If she’s really lesbian then yeah let’s stay friends but if not then not

[merry meadow]

but shes a horrible person why would u want somebody like that as a friend

[merry meadow]

why does that even matter, what does her sexuality have to do with yalls "friendship"

[primal lotus]

Because if she lied to me I won’t accept that

[merry meadow]

she is playing with u so hard shes not taking u seriously at all

[merry meadow]

ahhh so thats where u draw the line huh, but lovebombing and toxicity is all good

why do u want to be walked all over

respect urself and ur time more

shes playing u she doesnt respect u at all and she knows u wont mind being disrespected so she keeps doing that, break the cycle bro

[primal lotus]

Just lemme see if she’s really lesbian

[merry meadow]

dont let a bitch like that control ur life

[primal lotus]

I think you’re escalating it a bit

[merry meadow]

i dont think i am shes literally disgusting, sorry not sorry

lesbian or not lesbian

[merry meadow]

like this is literally so irrelevant, she has done worse than lying

[primal lotus]

Then let it be the cherry on top

[merry meadow]

🥀its crazy how much shit u allow

[rough mango]

frl

[rough mango]

does it really matter whether she's lying or not? she's done worse things than lying to u before

😰😰😰

[merry meadow]

dont worry im sure he knows what hes talking about, as he proved throughout this entire post

[primal lotus]

It does matter to me

[tulip wigeon]

What’s gonna happen if you find out that she’s lying

Or if she’s not

[primal lotus]

If she’s lying then I know I can’t trust her and if she’s not then everything stays the same

[primal lotus]

But I lowkey don’t know how to make sure

[merry meadow]

🤡

[primal lotus]

Look man we have two different opinions, if you don’t like mine then there’s no need to mock me for it or create a big drama

[merry meadow]

we have two different opinions and urs is objectively wrong

[primal lotus]

If that’s what you think then just let it be. Still not need to mock someone for that

[rough mango]

man we js dont want u to hurt urself

because you're very cooked rn

i fear u might hurt yourself ||sh|| if that girl blocks u or stops talking to you

ts lowkey ruining you

[merry meadow]

im sorry to tell u this but this entire situation is very mockable😭

[primal lotus]

I know this is what most people say but I wouldn’t ever do that. I’ve already lost other great girls, although none like her

[primal lotus]

Nah lowkey I was kinda relieved, now I just gotta make sure she’s lesbian and didn’t lie to my face then I’m really relieved

[tulip wigeon]

You can find out whether she’s telling the truth or not, but right now, she’s giving you the option to walk away (by saying that she’s lesbian)

I remember doing the exact same when i was trying to hint to the guy that i’m not interested in as well when he kept pursuing me

Girls can already tell you’re into them from miles away. And if they’re into you too, they would have responded to your advances, and defined the relationship without this push-n-pull bs

And this isn’t good + it’s strange that she does this, but i’ll tell you one thing: her flirting with you does not mean anything. She’s merely doing it out of entertainment and she’s not sure what she wants. I know that might be a tough pill to swallow, but that’s what i seem to be getting here from everything you told us. Point is, you deserve someone who’s 100% sure that they want you. You deserve somebody who doesn’t pull stunts to keep you close and give you the illusion that you two will end up having this perfect, happy life in the future. I want you to realize the kind of place you’re in right now. And i especially don’t want you to slip back into old habits in the case that something else happens (ie. she compliments you or flirts again) because if i’m gonna be honest with you, everyone is afraid that you will
If you ask me, i don’t see a point in chasing the truth. Lie or not, her choosing to tell you (or lie to you) that she’s lesbian already tells you enough of one thing: she doesn’t want you. And she sees no future with you. You can’t change that, but you can change how you act from now on

[primal lotus]

I realise this will never go into a romantic direction, even if she flirts I think I would realise that. I also know I don’t want her as a partner anymore cause of all these stunts AND that she told me she’s lesbian after like 1-1.5 months. I just want her as a friend and not more, except if she lied to me then I will cut contact once and for all

[tulip wigeon]

I see, so that’s the decision you have made

That’s good, im glad that you realized this, i was scared that you wouldn’t

Proud of you man 👍

Just please, never ever date her

The universe has better in store for you

[primal lotus]

Pinky promise

We already talked about it in the morning a bit and we decided we wouldn’t flirt or anything like that again and whatever we do it’ll stay platonic

[primal lotus]

I sure hope I don’t find any discord girls anymore 😭

[tulip wigeon]

That’s awesome. You guys talked it out and came to a consensus. I couldn’t have imagined a better ending 👏

Be proud of your growth

This is the best closure you could possibly have

[primal lotus]

I still love her tho… I hope these feelings will fade at some point

[tulip wigeon]

That’s alright, give yourself some time and space to process things

You mentioned that you have hobbies? Spend your time nurturing the skills for them

[primal lotus]

Yeah that’s a good idea

Now with school starting I hope that’ll give me enough distraction

[tulip wigeon]

It should

Spending time with your friends would help get your her off your mind tok

[primal lotus]

Yeah, gotta spend more time with them fr

[primal lotus]

Now she told me she’s only bisexual, what in the name of god is happening. Maybe I just interpreted it wrong T-T

[primal lotus]

I’ll still stick to this tho cause this type of confusion ain’t what I’m looking for

[merry meadow]

💀💀💀💀

this is actually so hilarious

why are u talking to this person

[primal lotus]

Cause it’s hilarious 😄

[merry meadow]

brother stop talking to her omg

😭shes so weird

[primal lotus]

That’s the point dude 😁

[merry meadow]

what do u mean by this

[primal lotus]

That she’s weird is the reason I still talk to her

[merry meadow]

no like

bad kind of weird

like toxic kind of weird

[primal lotus]

Character development 💪

Nah but I lowkey won’t keep trying cause she’s that kind of weird

[merry meadow]

learn from the mistakes dude now when u recognize red flags dont just ignore them

im proud of u for finally putting an end to this

[rough mango]

omgggg im proud of you

[rough mango]

you won't be able to move on if you keep talking to her

but ig you'll figure it out

[primal lotus]

Some day on a random Tuesday night

Idk what to think

Is it time to close the post?

[rough mango]

if you don't want any advice and feel like ur done talking to other people about your problem, close it.

[eternal flax]

Damn bro

An end to an era 💔

[tulip wigeon]

If she’s like this when you guys are just friends, who can imagine what she’ll be like when you guys actually end up tgt

🤷‍♀️

You decide when to close the post, you can keep it up for a few more days then close, or close it now

[merry meadow]

hahahahahahahaah

[primal lotus]

Idk if this is one of the good endings 😭

[primal lotus]

That’s why I wouldn’t commit to a relationship with her anymore

[merry meadow]

trust me this is a good ending

i promise

[primal lotus]

But I’m still madly in love with her

[merry meadow]

can u tell me what u like about her?

[primal lotus]

No, that’s the whole point

[merry meadow]

?

name me things u like about her

rationalize it

[rough mango]

he likes nothing about her but also loves her

he likes her toxicity and mind games

💀💀💀😭😭😭

[merry meadow]

fair that shit can be addicting

[eternal flax]

Nah he’s gotta lock in and move on

[merry meadow]

god im so invested in this thread its one of my fav parts fo the day

[eternal flax]

BRO SAME

[merry meadow]

lmaoooo

[eternal flax]

Every time I wake up I’m always like “what new development do we have today 🧐”

[merry meadow]

or regression...

[eternal flax]

True

[primal lotus]

I don’t know what I love about her 😭 but like in general she’s exactly my type, there is just all that crap she’s doing

[eternal flax]

Don’t settle it ain’t worth it

Shoot high but don’t air ball

[merry meadow]

i promise u will find more girls who are exactly ur type, i know its hard to believe rn because ur so blinded but trust after the feeling goes away u will see it with ur own eyes

the fact that u cant name exact things u like about her is proof u just have a massive crush that is really temporary and will go away

[primal lotus]

I love her voice bro, she snowboards, we have pretty similar interests and opinions, she doesn’t look too bad, we play the same type of video games, she is generally kind, a bit teasing sometimes which isn’t bad for me. But I know I mustn’t be with her ever

[primal lotus]

It seems impossible right now

[eternal flax]

doesnt look to bad is crazy work

[primal lotus]

*stunning

Better?

[eternal flax]

nah the way u put it was fine

Youve talked her up so much it just threw me off

[primal lotus]

Cause she is that

[merry meadow]

u can find a 100000x better girl with all of those things believe it or not

and yes i KNOW u dont believe it rn but u will in some time and i put this shit on my mom

u WILL find someone who wont emotionally abuse u and u WILL be happy

i guarantee it bro, ur task rn is just to cut off contact with this bloodsucker

[primal lotus]

I can’t man 😭 I’m still hoping way too much.
She said that she would like me if she didn’t have her crush because her crush and I are the same person just opposite gender. That gave me some hope again and I KNOW IT SHOULDNT but it did and I know it’s bad…

Imma get her crush wiped from the face of the world and see if it’s true atp

I know it’s bad but I can’t control how I feel 😭 I know I should lock in but idk…

[timber wren]

You're the second option.

You deserve better

Move on fam

I know it's hard but

Waiting will only make you feel worse

Every little hope you have gets crushed each day

Been there

It's not fun

[merry meadow]

read what u just wrote

[merry meadow]

BRO SHES NOT GOING TO EVER DATE U NO MATTER WHAT😭😭😭😭

SHE WANTS TO KEEP PLAYING THESE GAMES WITH U BECAUSE SHE LIKES THE ATTENTION SHES GETTING

and she will keep u wrapped around her finger because it suits HER because she looooves how desperate and sad u are and it feeds her shitass ego

she will NEVER date u

but u know what she will do?

she will keep u on ur toes. she will never clearly reject u and that will always lead u back to her because ur her source of validation shes using u

shes manipulating u she knows u like her

please listen to me dude i know girls like this

and ur so hopelessly in love with her because of her wrongdoings, these mind games of her keep u coming back

and its all gonna go in a loop until u finally open ur eyes and break the cycle

ESCAPE

[rough mango]

DOESN'T LOOK TOO BAD 😭😭😭😭😭😭🥀🥀🥀🥀💀💀💀💀💀💀😭😭😭😭😭🥀🥀🥀💔💔💔💔💔

[rough mango]

frfr

[eternal flax]

I wasnt the only one lol

Lowkey just drop her and ball, my ex still looks at my shit from time to time and im just out enjoying life

Just cant let them know u care cause then they know they have a foot in the door

[merry meadow]

i swear they always come back when u start moving on

@primal lotus send me a pic of her

i wanna see where the "doesnt look too bad" comment is coming frm

[primal lotus]

I was so relieved when she said she was lesbian, or at least that’s how I interpreted it. Now with her saying she’s bi I’m hoping again 😭
I so wanted an still unfortunately want it to be her, I still think there’s a way it can end in a relationship but I know there probably isn’t. I’m torn back and forth and I know that isn’t good.
I’m still hoping because we would be a great match without these games

[primal lotus]

I respect her privacy 😭

[merry meadow]

read what i said again

[primal lotus]

I know…

But I still don’t think she’s doing it on purpose…

[merry meadow]

oh my god

[eternal flax]

intentional or not

it shows how she sees u

[merry meadow]

that is so intentional dude

[primal lotus]

But why would someone go through the trouble of creating a good plan to keep me in their life without ever committing to something?

[merry meadow]

read what i said again

[merry meadow]

.

she likes ur desperation it makes her feel important and validated

[eternal flax]

ego

thats ur answer

[marble warren]

Wait so what episode did we reach I'm seeing a twist where she said she's lesbian

[merry meadow]

its episode 192829 of same shit over snd over

[marble warren]

I can't lie I can't handle someone being too clingy but again that's just me so seeing him constantly texting her with her "rejecting!?!??" him hurts my brain

[merry meadow]

some women are insecure and need this kind of attention

[eternal flax]

the easiest way ive found to deal with girls like this is to constantly put the ball in their court

[marble warren]

Idek if it's that she's rejecting him n he's not getting the message or if she's rlly leading him on

[merry meadow]

nah shes leading him on so hard

[marble warren]

Eh true but all I'm reading from him is how he's constantly texting her n how he keeps on getting rejected

[primal lotus]

By just not texting her?

[merry meadow]

😭

yes

[eternal flax]

by rejecting her even if she doesnt like u

[primal lotus]

How is that supposed to work?

[merry meadow]

stop texting her get her out of ur life im literslly begging u at this point

[eternal flax]

u gotta overpower ur love for her

[marble warren]

Did she ever even text u first

[eternal flax]

dont use these methods on every girl u talk to BUT

its acceptable if they treat u like this regardless of how kind they are

[marble warren]

And are ur chats equal or is it 90% u with 10% of her replying

[marble warren]

If she's lesbian what even is the point

[primal lotus]

When we get to a conversation it’s 50/50

[primal lotus]

She said she’s bisexual yesterday night

I just interpreted it wrong

[marble warren]

Does she

[primal lotus]

Rarely

[marble warren]

Yea just stop

For ur sake stop being overly clingy if she's not even putting in effort to text u first

[eternal flax]

If u legit cant not text her u gotta punish urself for doing so

[marble warren]

Or just delete whatever platform u text her on 👀

[primal lotus]

I don’t wanna ghost her 😭 I promised myself that I won’t ever ghost someone

[merry meadow]

dude ur a lost cause im sorry

ur not even trying

[eternal flax]

times change

[primal lotus]

Im supposed to delete insta and discord? I mean insta okay but discord??

[primal lotus]

Im Doing my best, it’s just not enough…

[marble warren]

Yes if ur that obsessed

[eternal flax]

Lowkey I was just like him at one point only thing that kept me away was working hella overtime

you have to do things that dont remind you of her at all

[marble warren]

He said it not me (totally didn't have any intention of saying smth like that)

[merry meadow]

she btw god i need to put my pronouns

[eternal flax]

Vater we arent trying to be mean, we get that you really like her, but at this point we have to beat the facts into ur head

[marble warren]

Thing is people over here giving him hope when he's acting that clingy is only making him more clingy he needs to let it chill down

[eternal flax]

UR NOT A DUDE

[primal lotus]

I just started school. That’ll probably be enough to distract me during the day and half my free time. The other half I’ll try to just be in call with my friends, talk to my parents, play with my cat etc.

[merry meadow]

no i aint i thought yall knew🥀

[eternal flax]

damn thought I was talkin to a fellow brother in arms

[merry meadow]

yess do that

[eternal flax]

u valid though regardless

[eternal flax]

if all else fails u might have to block her

but thats last resort

[primal lotus]

Just gotta survive the last 2 days of not 100% school

[marble warren]

Change the name to dawgette

[primal lotus]

Maybe imma schedule calls with her that my brain can look forward to so I don’t want to text her as much and then I just can’t call cause something got in the way or smt

[eternal flax]

not a bad idea

[marble warren]

Or just don't text unless she texts first.

[primal lotus]

But then I’m unsure if we’ll ever get in contact again. With that call thing I know I’ll tell her I can’t call and that’s at least some form of contact

[primal lotus]

And then gradually go into this

[marble warren]

If ur unsure of her texting u just bc u not texting her first that means she could care less abt u

[eternal flax]

if yall dont talk again then it shows she doesnt care that much about what yall got

it sucks but its life

[marble warren]

Okay at this point I have to ask this

Does she ask you for money

[eternal flax]

you may not understand now but you will one day

[merry meadow]

may a man be this obsessed w me one day

[primal lotus]

Never has asked for anything

[marble warren]

Lol

[marble warren]

A stage less... idk if u want it to that level 👀

[primal lotus]

What does that mean @eternal flax ? 😭

She just responded to my text. What now?

[eternal flax]

what yall talkin about

[primal lotus]

The crashout

[eternal flax]

that was more so a joke

its like someone who just does crazy shit all the time for no given reason

[primal lotus]

Lowkey doable

[primal lotus]

How long do I wait to answer her?

[eternal flax]

Ideally forever

But as long as you can manage

[primal lotus]

[eternal flax]

You’ll be alright man

If anything just leave this post open and if you need to talk we got you

Healings a long journey and you can meet some cool people along the way

[primal lotus]

Forever will be impossible for me anyways…

But I saw a new book came out from a series I love. Gonna go buy it tomorrow. Then I finally have some real stuff to keep me distracted

Maybe I’ll text her back before I go to bed or tomorrow morning

I want her to be chasing me too…

[eternal flax]

Nah

just leave it

[primal lotus]

Nono Look. If I make her chase me she’ll be sad too when I’m not there AND we’ll be closer. Win-win

🥹

[merry meadow]

@eternal flax just let him go theres no fixing him bro

[eternal flax]

Until he gives up on her I aint givin up on him

[primal lotus]

Y’all I’m sorry I’m like this. I wish I could just cut ties but I js can’t. I wish I could take your advice to the fullest but that little hope I still have makes that almost impossible

[eternal flax]

Nah youre good

I was in your shoes before

ya live ya learn nothing wrong with loving hard

[tulip wigeon]

Boy i thought this was over

[tulip wigeon]

Its alright

I didnt expect it to be overcame immediately anyways

[eternal flax]

we just gettin started 🙌

[tulip wigeon]

@primal lotus you don’t have to ghost her

God i hate ghosting people too

Just be slower with your replies, give it 5 to 20 minutes before you respond

Or 1-2 hours

Depending on what you feel

[eternal flax]

just put ur phone in a lockbox and dont touch it

[tulip wigeon]

Pull away slowly, then you’ll adapt one by one

Dont have to do all things at once

Coz that puts too much pressure

[primal lotus]

I can definitely do this, longer just hurts

[tulip wigeon]

No problem, stick whatever you’re more comfortable with

[eternal flax]

lowkey blocking her would do u wonders

[primal lotus]

I don’t wanna be that guy

[eternal flax]

the guy who doesnt accept shitty behavior from an unstable individual?

[primal lotus]

The guy who blocks others. I understand I can’t accept it but I wanna be able to do it without blocking

[tulip wigeon]

Blocking her out of the blue is kinda mean tho 😭 from what this guy said, she’s not 100% a bad person, but she’s not 100% good person either. That makes it harder for him to walk away because the good parts are still there, which means there’s potential

[eternal flax]

shes been worse

[tulip wigeon]

And im pretty sure he cant do it either way, hes too attached

[eternal flax]

you arent obligated to be nice to her

[primal lotus]

Im afraid this is true

[eternal flax]

if you dont want her around you can just do it

[primal lotus]

Thing is I do want her around…

[tulip wigeon]

True, but you don’t have to be an asshole either

She can be as bad as Satan, but we can’t stoop as low as her level

He gotta be the more mature one here

[primal lotus]

I still stand by my opinion that she’s just a confused and immature teenager

[tulip wigeon]

Yes, you did mention that she’s 16? Or was it 17

[primal lotus]

She’s 15 😭

Im 16

[tulip wigeon]

Oh damn

Yeah i didnt know shit when i was 15 lol

[primal lotus]

She turns 16 this month tho

[tulip wigeon]

Ah i see

So high school alrdy

[primal lotus]

Junior year now I believe

[eternal flax]

yeah at that age odds are it wouldnt work out anyway lol

[tulip wigeon]

This is tough for you

[eternal flax]

you will change alot over the next few years and would most likely outgrow eachother regardless

[tulip wigeon]

Girls your age havent matured yet and a lot of them will have avoidant tendencies

[primal lotus]

Man I know. Just the long distance makes it practically impossible for this long time we would be apart

[eternal flax]

Makin me feel unc

[tulip wigeon]

Yeah i agree, lots can change within years

[primal lotus]

She seemed so mature in the beginning…

[tulip wigeon]

Anybody can fake their identity within the first few months

Admittedly i was also the same

When u know people for longer, their mask will start to slip

[eternal flax]

i dont get how people do that shit

[marble warren]

Wow I leave and come back and you two are still here yapping lol

[eternal flax]

im incapable of not acting a fool 24/7

[eternal flax]

bored asf

[marble warren]

I'd go as far as saying forever if it's online you rlly get to know someone after meeting them

[primal lotus]

Yeah same

[primal lotus]

I mean growing together would also be an option? In general I mean

[eternal flax]

unlikely

its possible but very unlikely nowadays

[marble warren]

With how things are going ima say impossible

[eternal flax]

most good relationships last like 4-5 years nowadays

[primal lotus]

We should bring dating standards from the 1950s or so back

[tulip wigeon]

So real

[eternal flax]

the 50s had alot of cons though lmao

[marble warren]

I don't think you two's relationship would've changed

[primal lotus]

Just the dating tho

[primal lotus]

If we lived this far apart no but if we lived close to each other I think the chances would be big

[marble warren]

I'd say certainly at that time period more romantic but still had its fair share of issues

[eternal flax]

Well women had alot less opportunity so they basically were forced to settle

[marble warren]

You need to stop being delusional and move on

[tulip wigeon]

I wouldn’t depend on it, imo she’d just come up with more excuses to avoid talking to u

[primal lotus]

My grandparents had such a cute love story (I think it was the 60s tho) and I lowkey want that too

[marble warren]

You can have that just not with her

So u two already texted?

Or u been ghosting her

[primal lotus]

If we lived closer 😭 we live in completely different time zones atm I know the chance of this working out and being something real are near 0 (never 0 tho)

[marble warren]

It is 0

[primal lotus]

I answered her text now, two hours after she texted. It wasn’t anything big tho, just explaining an image I sent her

[primal lotus]

Nah. Never say never 😅

[marble warren]

Alr now DONT text until she double texts

[tulip wigeon]

You say you dont want a committed relationship with her, but you’re still actively seeking out for signs that she likes you back

[marble warren]

And by double text I mean one with a big time difference in between

[tulip wigeon]

I’m not sure what you wanna do here

[primal lotus]

Does answering a reel count?

[marble warren]

He's being delusional so he needs someone to be negative like me atm

[marble warren]

Yes

Don't do that

If she thinks abt u she'll question it

[tulip wigeon]

Ya count on u then

[marble warren]

Which she won't

And if she did its probably bc she's bored with no one to waste their attention on her

[primal lotus]

I just said never say never. I don’t hope for very much but a even so little chance is there

[marble warren]

But we'll think about that later

For now wait for that double text Vater

[primal lotus]

Aight I will

[marble warren]

You better

[primal lotus]

I mean imma go to bed now anyways. First 7 hours of waiting should be easy 😭

[marble warren]

You're not waiting

[tulip wigeon]

Fair. I’m just confused that you’re going back on your word now

[marble warren]

We've given up waiting there's nothing to look forward for if she texts then sure but rn no.

[marble warren]

Athena don't be consufed he's just in need of a reality check

[primal lotus]

I lowkey feel like a little kid that is taught how to behave properly

[eternal flax]

You can only give someone so many free passes

[tulip wigeon]

How long have you and her been talking again @primal lotus

[primal lotus]

1.5 months at this point

[tulip wigeon]

Ohhhh

No wonder

[primal lotus]

??

[eternal flax]

BRUH

[marble warren]

There is wonder

Trust me

[eternal flax]

wait i cant judge

[tulip wigeon]

Give it 5-6 months and you’ll be sick of it

[marble warren]

Athena please

[eternal flax]

I miss those times bro

[marble warren]

Don't give him hope

When she doesn't even bother texting him first

[tulip wigeon]

He’s not gonna cut off contact with her at this rate 😭

I’ve seen other people try to talk sense into him

[primal lotus]

I feel like that is because there’s normally a text from me already waiting…

[marble warren]

Exactly that's why I'm here to save the ray by being overly negative

[marble warren]

Which is ur fault and we gon see if that'll change starting now

[tulip wigeon]

No but you dont get it, 1.5 months is still a very fresh connection

[primal lotus]

You’re not the first person to try that I think 😭

[marble warren]

You gonna keep that up till she actually says smth abt u not texting her first

[tulip wigeon]

His brain is still stuck in the honeymoon period where he still thinks she’s “perfect”

[marble warren]

Nothing to be proud of

[primal lotus]

Never said I was?

[marble warren]

He thinks the universe will teleport her to him and they'll live a happily ever after when she told him she's lesbian a couple days ago

[tulip wigeon]

Exactly

See you get it

This guy is still insanely attached

You can tell him whatever but i’m 100% sure he’ll still run back to her

[primal lotus]

When she said she was lesbian, or when I thought she was lesbian I was relieved cause I didn’t have all this stress anymore. Today she said she’s bi and it all came back

[eternal flax]

either way it will work itself out eventually

[marble warren]

True that

But it's a bit frustrating seeing it first hand lmao

Even knowing that

[eternal flax]

Yeee

if only he could have a clear concious

[tulip wigeon]

He does, he just doesn’t have enough awareness and the self-respect to walk away

I get how it feels being stuck in such a vicious cycle 🤷‍♀️ but what can you do atp

[eternal flax]

I stand by blocking her

[primal lotus]

I will do my best to let her initiate texts and calls

And not text her unless she texts me

[rough mango]

because she likes the attention she is securing her future she will date multiple guys and then shell get bored of it and she wants to settle down she might choose you if she doesn't find a good partner because you are her last option

[tulip wigeon]

^

If she likes you, she doesn’t like you for you, she likes you for the validation you give her

[eternal flax]

She knows youll treat her right regardless

You need to show her you wont tolerate that

[primal lotus]

But she isn’t stupid. She should know people walk away at some point. Even if it’s as bad as my case now

[rough mango]

I promise to kill kill myself if you don't break up with her do you seriously think I am going to keep my promise

[rough mango]

yeah no you are going to think about her during your school time AND you will think about her all the time

[eternal flax]

Well she clearly isnt that intelligent if she cant be direct

[rough mango]

calls are worse just text her for 30 minutes keep the limit

[primal lotus]

Of course I will but I can’t let the grades drop so I’m just gonna lock in

[eternal flax]

Even if you win her over youll just create distance again

[rough mango]

yeah but you are not going to walk away at some point because you are not people you are her last option

[eternal flax]

Think about it

Even if you get her to like you by being distant and making her realize shes doing it wrong once you go back to showing a bunch of affection she will pull away again

[rough mango]

she knows you won't leave her no matter what that's why you are her last option

💔🥀

[primal lotus]

That sounds paradoxical

[rough mango]

I wish my ex was this clingy with me I would have lived a happy life

[tulip wigeon]

Are you really okay with the fact that you’ll be the last guy she chooses?

[eternal flax]

No offense to yall but alot of girls say they want their guy to be all over them etc but when they get that it can often repel them

[tulip wigeon]

Is that an ideal marriage?

[rough mango]

apparently for him yes

she's perfect for him

[tulip wigeon]

Must suck

[rough mango]

no💔💔🙏🏻🙏🏻not all girls r same

[tulip wigeon]

If i were him, i’d prefer a girl who loves me as much as i love her

[rough mango]

exactly

[tulip wigeon]

Oi i get dopamine hits everytime my crush texts me “where” on two different platforms on a saturday morning

[primal lotus]

Of course I do. I just don’t know guys 😭

[tulip wigeon]

If it’s meant to be, then its meant to be

[eternal flax]

my ex was the same and once i finally opened up to her we didnt last much longer

[tulip wigeon]

Clearly, she isn’t the right one for you

[tulip wigeon]

No way wtf

[eternal flax]

Not everyone is like that but its happened to so many people I know its insane

[tulip wigeon]

I complained to my crush that he rarely talks about himself

[tulip wigeon]

Man

[primal lotus]

No, she’s the right one for me. I’m just not the right one for her

[tulip wigeon]

Hope you find better gang @eternal flax

I know there are great people out there

[tulip wigeon]

I don’t think that’s how it works lol

[eternal flax]

There are Im not searching for them though 😭

Thats why Im tryna tell Vater just move on and focus on you

[tulip wigeon]

Don’t worry, you won’t have to

[eternal flax]

You find the best love when you arent looking

[tulip wigeon]

They’ll come to you naturally

Exactly

[primal lotus]

I wasn’t looking, and this is lowkey the strongest love I’ve ever felt. I just don’t get it back…

[rough mango]

yeah man she is the right one, treats you like a last option, leads you on, plays with your feelings, toys with you, and you are the wrong one for her because people are telling you to choose yourself instead of her 💔💔. i totally understand you.

[tulip wigeon]

It’s okay, life happens

[primal lotus]

Maybe it’s the other way around idk

[tulip wigeon]

You make mistakes, you learn and you do better next time

[rough mango]

no its not the other way around dw

u are right

😢😢

[tulip wigeon]

Scrap and start from scratch

[marble warren]

Quite ironic you're saying this

[tulip wigeon]

Fr like im telling u

He knows how bad she is

He just cant move on

[primal lotus]

I know I will if this keeps going, I just can’t

[eternal flax]

lowkey

[marble warren]

Dani no ima go murder the two of them myself u not going down for their sake

[eternal flax]

She isnt really treating you like an option

[tulip wigeon]

Its ok shes making an example

[rough mango]

LMAO

[marble warren]

EXACTLY

[rough mango]

what even is she treating him like

[tulip wigeon]

Idk

[eternal flax]

If it were a test question youd be number 5 where you put a custom answer

[tulip wigeon]

Trash?

[marble warren]

Lmao no one here knows

[rough mango]

💀💀💀NO STOP😭😭😭😭😭

i feel bad for OP

[marble warren]

[eternal flax]

Im not tryna be mean

[tulip wigeon]

Vater im sorry ur getting cooked

[marble warren]

Yea we turned this into bullying him 😭

[rough mango]

i feel like a mom who lost her son to a toxic girl

😢😢😢😢

[merry meadow]

😭

whags happening out here

[marble warren]

But tbh I feel like this might be the only way for him to get it

[marble warren]

HEY BESTIE

Dawgette

[merry meadow]

how are we still arguing abt this oh my god

[rough mango]

remember when i said I'll feel like a proud mom when vater heals? i guess I'll never feel like that

😢😢😢

[marble warren]

His supporters turned into haters 😔

[merry meadow]

@primal lotus do u have somebody irl to tell this too?

[tulip wigeon]

I’m just worried he’ll stay until he loses his mind over this one girl 😭 😭

Like omg she’s not worth it

[marble warren]

Dani you have me

[rough mango]

🩷

[tulip wigeon]

If she likes you she would’ve told you already

[merry meadow]

lowkey i think that has to happen

maybe its a canon event atp

[primal lotus]

Not really no

[marble warren]

The thing is she said everything that says she don't

[marble warren]

We're background characters in it

[eternal flax]

All jokes aside @primal lotus I have mad respect for you, keep loving to the fullest you will find someone eventually. Youre a good dude shes lucky you even consider her as a future partner, you arent the one losing here.

[tulip wigeon]

Yes exactly

This is a whole lot of mixed signals

[rough mango]

honestly the next time i find a guy im gonna give him the best honeymoon phase and then pull this toxic trick on him. "push and pull" "confusing" "leading on". so that the new guy doesn't end up leaving me and he'll forever be interested in me

💪🏻💪🏻

[merry meadow]

maybe she does shes probably just shy

[primal lotus]

Im not losing but I’m the one crying?

[merry meadow]

@primal lotus shoot ur shot fam she the one💍

[tulip wigeon]

He asked her out multiple times and she’s still pulling this bs

[eternal flax]

You may be hurt now but whos gonna be hurting for years when she realized dang I shouldve gave him a chance

[tulip wigeon]

Girl.. i can smell the sarcasm 😭

[rough mango]

he already shot his shot so many times

😢😢

[eternal flax]

Shes gonna be hurt for life while youre only hurt temporarily

[rough mango]

he should be out of bullets by now

[merry meadow]

okay but maybe this one will work😮u never know until u try the 500th time

[marble warren]

I'm planning on doing the same thing but long term I'll give him the best time of his life and die old and he'll never get over me 😈

[tulip wigeon]

Okok listen

I know you’re a great guy

[marble warren]

NOOOOO

[rough mango]

🙏🏻😈

[marble warren]

Dawgette restarting our progress to 0

[tulip wigeon]

Obviously you love her very much, you tried everything, you’re moving mountains for her

[rough mango]

no she's right

[tulip wigeon]

But she’s not appreciating it gang

[primal lotus]

Second season

[eternal flax]

Thats what I did, you learn alot about yourself along the way

[rough mango]

vater u should confess to her seriously

and see whether she accepts u or not

[merry meadow]

actually thats a good idea like unironic

[eternal flax]

the rage bait is insane

[tulip wigeon]

Didnt they have a convo where there’ll be no more flirting or romance

And they promised to stay solely platonic from now on

[marble warren]

Are we being ragebaited

[rough mango]

they did? oops

[merry meadow]

no like maybe this time he will get an actual rejection im not being sarcastic anymore

[rough mango]

💀💀💀

vater r u really breaking ur promise

[tulip wigeon]

Valid reaction

[marble warren]

He did that like 10 times by now

[primal lotus]

It is what it is

[merry meadow]

😭😭😭

[tulip wigeon]

I hate it when people go back on their word

[eternal flax]

BRO

I CANT POST GIFS

[merry meadow]

guys

[rough mango]

if u can break this promise then why can't u break the "promise to stay as friends forever" promise

[merry meadow]

can we make a server

[marble warren]

Dawgette he's asked her out yesterday WDYM

[primal lotus]

Had that convo when I thought she was lesbian and already thought there was never a chance anyways

[merry meadow]

so that we can send reaction images

cuz i really need that rn

[merry meadow]

damn sorry i missed that ep

[eternal flax]

bro started spittin heat

[eternal flax]

NAH FR

[primal lotus]

Stop making good points

[marble warren]

Tbh I missed it too but I'm guessing based on thr start of today's episode

[tulip wigeon]

Chat im hungry

[marble warren]

BRUH when tf did that happen

[tulip wigeon]

But this drama is enough to keep me sustained

Can we keep going

[tulip wigeon]

Like a few days back

[marble warren]

No athena I want this over with already

I wanna see the ending

[tulip wigeon]

Gang this is never ending

[primal lotus]

Meaning yesterday?

[tulip wigeon]

Oh shit that was yesterday?

[primal lotus]

Give it 5-6 months

[marble warren]

It's like those 1k episodes animes

[tulip wigeon]

Don’t take it seriously

[primal lotus]

She said she was lesbian yesterday, and today bisexual

[eternal flax]

The one piece might be real and it is actually a romance

[tulip wigeon]

I’d prefer if it takes less than that amount of time

[marble warren]

Vater don't even consider that

[primal lotus]

Talking bout that she sent me her first text @marble warren

[tulip wigeon]

What did she say

[marble warren]

Now wait for the double

And by double I mean one that's at least 5h away from this one

[merry meadow]

yall accept my request so i can add u in the server i acc made one

[tulip wigeon]

Okay girl bet

[primal lotus]

Ehhh good question

[rough mango]

okay

[rough mango]

vater lets move to the new server cuz we'll be able to discuss there properly

[eternal flax]

I mean hey atleast you made some friends along the way Vater lol

[marble warren]

I'm an enemy

[merry meadow]

vaters issues done connected us all

[rough mango]

yeah he also got a cool internet mom (me)

[tulip wigeon]

We’re all frustrated with Vater but it’s alright

[eternal flax]

bros a D1 hater

[primal lotus]

✨ That’s the whole point ✨

[marble warren]

I'm only gonna be a friend once I see the last episode

With a sad ending

[merry meadow]

maybe one piece was friends we made along the way

[tulip wigeon]

I’ve never watched one piece

[merry meadow]

me neither but perfectly describes thsi situation

[rough mango]

vater the best revenge u can have on her is leave her and become hotter 😈

[tulip wigeon]

Oh lol

[primal lotus]

What we eating for dinner?

[tulip wigeon]

Real

[rough mango]

tea

[marble warren]

Are you implying vater our main character isn't already perfect n hot enough 🙄

[primal lotus]

Of course I am

[eternal flax]

the way he described her I feel like bro is legit settling for her

[marble warren]

When compared to him eh yeah she's not TOO bad

[primal lotus]

She doesn’t look too bad ngl

[marble warren]

.

Doubling down on that comment is crazy

[uneven surge]

Good luck

[wheat marsh]

You know what I didn’t realize talk were teens until just now

I respect this response

[wheat marsh]

NO FUCKING WAY

[primal lotus]

She’s bisexual

[wheat marsh]

WAIT WHAT

Did you fr make one bc im invested

I had my own issues and wasn’t able to check in so I just read through everything to get caught up

[wheat marsh]

This killed me the first time I read it and it’s killing me now

[uneven surge]

Are we still hopping?

[primal lotus]

No idea what hopping means but I’m still hoping yeah…

[primal lotus]

Fact is fact

Could stare at her 24/7 and not get bored

[uneven surge]

Hooping sorry 😆

[primal lotus]

Stil don’t know what it means…

[primal lotus]

no

[wheat marsh]

aw man 😔

[tulip wigeon]

nah

[wheat marsh]