Misjudging my father

[modern hemlock]

I’m am a child of a divorce couple I will sometimes see my dad and we do fun things together as a child I love him to the point I will defend him. But overtime as I get older I started to resent my father to the point I will starting insulting him on the phone. The reason I started doing this is because I feel he started to stop talking to me and ignored me to the point to feel invalidated. I also feel like I I’m a push over because of him not raising to be independent and teaching me on what he knows. But in the end of the day he is my father and I should to be more appreciated that I have one. He could have been worst and I need to stop seeing the bad in things just because he didn’t turn out as I wanted. I feel like I quick to judge my father and should give the love and respect he deserve even if he at fault

[maiden plume]

Did you ever think about making amends with your father? If yes, what do you think would be good ways on how to do it, in person? Perhaps through a letter or over text where you could explain how you are feeling beforehand?

[modern hemlock]

Nah. I’ll do in person

[maiden plume]

Will you make a plan beforehand or do you want to just go on with it on a day where it will feel right?

[modern hemlock]

Second option

[maiden plume]

Well in that case, it seems like ur confident in yourself, no more words needed.

Whatever the outcome will be, forgiveness and trying to work on resentment will always be a good thing, you are making a important decision and its good that you confronted it.

[modern hemlock]

Thanks for your support

[proper wave]

ur dad is awesome