He realized one day that the one thing I needed most was an artist, so he decided to draw. I thought he just wanted practice, so I gave him a character to draw for fun. Turns out he was serious to the point where he draws a character every single day and sends it to me. It was still okay by then, though we were slightly friend-ish. He decided to learn coding too, which I also needed, so he collabed with me on the project. He had surgery one day and I got really worried, so I tried to help make it less painful as possible for him by giving him stuff to do (since he wanted it).
#I need a lot of help rn because I'm having mental issues bc of this
elder dirge
zealous vine
well truly if G isnt willing to try at all then maybe you should break up with that person, though I wouldnt replace them with N because at this point you need to really keep in mind why you would do that, but try to talk with G if they are noncompliant then yeah i probably would, as for N just keep talking to that person, build a bond and see where it goes again this is just my own personal advice, goodluck!
elder dirge
well truly if G isnt willing to try at all then maybe you should break up with t...
sorry i wasn't done writing last night hehe
ill continue later ^^
elder dirge
About G and N:
This is the main part. N was part of the reason me and G broke up, though he didn't mean to because he didn't know we were in one in the first place. G started getting paranoid abt N liking me, which we both told him prob not possible. Me and G are still friends since he treated me like a best friend, although rn we don't talk that much anymore and we kinda grew apart, though this might change once school starts. N started being really nice to me instead while I was recovering from this break up and helped me out on an infinite amount of things. I thought it might've been because he was sorry about what he did (he truly was), so I just accepted the therapy. Somehow eventually, we grew so close to each other, that he practically sacrificed his entire life choices for me (for example, his daily life schedule and his major choice, he changed it from med to cs).
Today he told me that I was his best friend too. (Somehow everyone who saw me as a best friend had a crush on me, even the girls ;-;) He is a rly good person, but honestly I'm worried abt whats going to happen.