#I'm Lost

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tranquil lichen
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That's strange, looks like a typical "i'm talking to another one" or her trying to get you into feeling hatred towards her just so she can end this relation on a "not my fault" or "we had a reason" way... i don't think this C continue but i think you should follow her "plan" into seeing what will this really lead.. in my opinion it's over and she's poisoning you slowly

dusk seal
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i explained it badly but there is love, i also thought about that for a while, but i felt like she would of long done it already, maybe she is just tired and wants someone else

tranquil lichen
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But not trying for you to see that that's her intention

dusk seal
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yeah but she doesnt thats the thing

tranquil lichen
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And trying to make you hate her

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So it can have a reason

dusk seal
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yeah i thought about it, but she had a reason a while ago with all this, so she cld of done it then, she had alot of problems with me and she can use anyone

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one time she said (recently), she wasted good enough and wants a break, thats when i started to think she has someone else and wants to leave but she didnt take the break

tranquil lichen
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I think she's just some rebel type girl

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Yeah

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In my opinion just fake rage towards her to see where it leads

dusk seal
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she will just breakup i already know that

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basically if i mess up anymore im done

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she picking out every problem rn

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then saying im not good enough

tranquil lichen
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Deep down i think you're nothing wrong

dusk seal
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i didnt do anything bro

tranquil lichen
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I just think she wants a perfect guy that she'll never have

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Classic thought

dusk seal
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im gonna sound cocky

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but there is no other guy that wld do what i did for this relationship

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i forgave everything

tranquil lichen
dusk seal
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yeah i guess

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but she has that good side, and im not hard to please, i dont ask for much, thats what i fell in love with

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and cant leave

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i put so much in

tranquil lichen
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You're too good of a soul to her type

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She prooobably wants a rebel guy

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I bet

dusk seal
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she had one before and got heart broken when he had like 7 other girls

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and its like a fear for her now

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she is immature i shld say that

tranquil lichen
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My Love life is messy too, don't worry these things happen ;p i just broke up with a guy because i "left him" when i didn't match with him on discord

tranquil lichen
dusk seal
dusk seal
tranquil lichen
dusk seal
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cuz thats all i saw back then

tranquil lichen
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Just one way.. get the heck our before she does

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Give no reason

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Just go away

dusk seal
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im not like that

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ill end it properly

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on a good note

tranquil lichen
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Yeah that's better ig

dusk seal
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thanks for helping but im still lost

tranquil lichen
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There's only two ways out

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You leave her

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Or she leaves you

dusk seal
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i know that but leaving isnt always best sometimes, maybe i shld but ik she can be better and if im willing to stay and watch her improve

tranquil lichen
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If you want

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You can

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Rare to occur

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But not impossible

dusk seal
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shld i rlly put my future on that hope for someone like her

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i only date to marry

tranquil lichen
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So i'll sleep now

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Good luck

tranquil lichen
dusk seal
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live not that far just cant meet frequently

tranquil lichen
dusk seal
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thank you

tranquil lichen
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Yw ^^

junior mountain
dusk seal
junior mountain
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but

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in a relationship, things have to be mutual in terms of effort

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like it is fine if one person does slightly more than the other

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however, you are putting in so much effort as if u were comparing a mansion to a shack in terms of effort

dusk seal
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yeah ill just see where it goes

junior mountain
dusk seal
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yeah thats true

junior mountain
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what do u fear

dusk seal
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its about a 40% she will breakup i assume

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60% stay