I have a gf, someone who I had loved dearly. Someone I trusted, or the only person I could. Currently, we're not together, because she broke up because of some sort of personal issue, which I understand. But because we broke up, I'm supposed to hate her, but when I try to get myself to, I cry and I can't seem to do it. I hate her, I cry. I love her, she might not take me back. I wish someone could help me control my feelings, and so that way I know what to do. If anyone's willing to help, please talk to me. I'm desperate for something.
#Love her or hate her?
fair stump
hollow pelican
I have a gf, someone who I had loved dearly. Someone I trusted, or the only pers...
in my opinion you shouldn't be denying your feelings, nor are you supposed to feel a certain way after a break up. its okay to not hate her, its ok to still love her. its best to just move on, accept the past and realize that you'll never get that back, cherish the moments, understand that this relationship is a valuable experience that will help you grow in the future. but know that being stuck on these feelings is going to turn into a wall that will stop you from ever being in another relationship. and the best way to move on is to doing something you enjoy or even finding something new, don't just focus on these thoughts, let them naturally settle into your new found truth while living your life. your life will continue, it is just up to you if you wanna be stagnant or keep it pushing forward, enjoying life to the fullest.
fair stump
in my opinion you shouldn't be denying your feelings, nor are you supposed to fe...
Alright, thanks. That's really helping.
iron mirage
I have a gf, someone who I had loved dearly. Someone I trusted, or the only pers...
If you're having mixed feeling about her, you should talk to someone professional, like a trusted adult or a therapist. Maybe even spend some time away from her, or wherever yuo met her (If it's school, you're cooked). Make sure you treasure your moments with others, your friends and family. Don't get distracted by her. Focus on important things. Now, you said she might not take you back, so I think you shouldn't worry, even though she could still take you back. For now, get some sleep, maybe even talk to your friends. Try not to think of her, block her if you can. Enjoy your life the way it is, and keep her out of it, so you don't have to deal with even more sadness.
Hope this helps.
fair stump
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It says I can't dm u tho..