I really loved her

[pliant willow]

I have never loved anyone like I loved her I never show my emotions and for the first time I did to this one girl and she said no but I can’t get over her what do I do know I haven’t been completely sane for the last months and this doesn’t help what do I do ??

[smoky scaffold]

U dodged a tank buddy.
just remember, whatever happens and happened, occurs only for ur good

[pliant willow]

Why would that be good ?

[smoky scaffold]

maybe, someone much better will find u soon

think on the bright side buddy

[smoky scaffold]

you are actually, whining abt smthg u never had
U confessed ur feeling, despite her response U should feel good

as u told her how u feel

[pliant willow]

Yes

[smoky scaffold]

see, instead of not telling how u feel, u would have saved up all that emotions and u woukd start overthinking, etc
but once u confessed,theres a part of that feels relaxed and happy
thats good

[summer scroll]

Have you blocked her yet?

[pliant willow]

No

[pliant willow]

Okay you have a point there

[summer scroll]

You don't have to completely block her but you gotta start somewhere

[pliant willow]

Okay but I don’t want to

[smoky scaffold]

just restrict her, she hasnt actually done anything wrong
like play with ur emotions

[pliant willow]

I know but I am very delusional

[summer scroll]

Get super busy with life

[pliant willow]

So I am thinking that

[summer scroll]

True

[smoky scaffold]

If u keep chasing butterflies, they all fly away but if u work on a garden, they'll follow

[smoky scaffold]

same applies to u too

[summer scroll]

Woahhh

[smoky scaffold]

it is what it is

[summer scroll]

That makes a lot of sense

Singles give the best advice 😭

[smoky scaffold]

ikr?
all my friends in relationship ask me for advice, like I have never been there but gotta help them lol

[pliant willow]

Coaches don’t play 😂

[summer scroll]

Relationships make you a new kind of delusional i swear

[timber topaz]

icl i was just dealing w this recently and tbh i stopped giving a fuck abt the girl i was talking too and she came back, let her miss you, let her realize who’s she’s missing out on.

[junior ruin]

if u dont block her ur gonna have to watch her get with other guys and that hurts, probably more than the rejection

[smoky scaffold]

im not ready to experience it yet

[smoky scaffold]

U know, I promised my younger self, if I ever love someone they should be the one until my last
but apprently in this century, i dont see that happening
I gave up lol

i scared of girls tbh
I rarely talk to girls and I feel really uncomfortable
Idk what to do lol
saves me from drama tho lolll

[summer scroll]

You're not gonna meet someone if you don't talk to girls tho😭

[summer scroll]

That's what i believe too but not every relationship is meant to last and you only get better from the bad experiences you'll have so don't be afraid of making mistakes

[smoky scaffold]

I dont know how to😭

Im scareddd

[summer scroll]

How do you talk to new people in general?

[smoky scaffold]

Thats the best part
I dont
I just have some childhood frns and few from highschool
thats all

[summer scroll]

Omg you're like me

Ykw js talk about smth random

If you're in a group ask about something you could have in common w this person

Or js ask really really good questions

You js have to fake confidence

[smoky scaffold]

the best I can do is weather😭

[smoky scaffold]

I often get overwhelmed
I feel I get judged

[summer scroll]

LMAO

[summer scroll]

Yeah me too but the thing is

Eve if they judge you, you probably won't find out

*even

And everybody judges everyone it only matters to us if we hear about it

[smoky scaffold]

I dont know
I'll try socializing more
but sometimes, I feel talking to ppl like u online is much better uk?

Like I feel more comfortable

[summer scroll]

Yeah but eventually you'll get comfortable with people irl too

[smoky scaffold]

yup