met through a mutual friend and immediately clicked and we got really close really fast, like in a week. i think it was after 2-3 months(right before xmas) she sent me a text basically saying how she doesnt make friends very often and she cared alot/i was one of the most important people in her life at the time hence the message bc she didnt want any resentment or tension to grow. wanting distance because spending so much time with me was putting a strain on her other friendships. when i read that message, i got scared bc i didnt realize that was happening so i gave her space-but i also saw the end in that message. after that text, i cherished every moment we spent together because again, i knew it was done. we ended up talking less and less until its like neither of us existed. walk right past each other, not a single convocation and that hurt me alot. everyday felt so much longer without my bestfriend. fast forward to the end of that school year (few weeks ago) i was debating if i should go up to her and asked why we drifted, what i did wrong, when she stopped caring. she was always the one who said she cared so much, so i wanted to know why she was also the one who acted like she couldnt care less. last day comes and that whole day for me; was about her. thought about it the whole day and i didnt end up going up to her but after school i walked to her house and waited there for a few minutes and my eyes got watery but i started walking home but then i saw her walking and we were both ghosts. once i pasted her i cracked. the waterworks came out. when i got home i started scrolling through past texts and saved messages. that was a mistake, i cried even more.-i dont normally cry much. i honestly just want answers, there is no world where we go back to being friends but i wanna know why. and im not doing that over text.. ik i sound obsessive and im not normally but i did care alot, and ik she did too
#How do recover from going to best friends to strangers?
toxic stratus
arctic tinsel
met through a mutual friend and immediately clicked and we got really close real...
you sound like you are very clear on what you feel and what you would like to happen, did you make a plan on when you could try and go talk to her irl?