Disgusting

[quartz sparrow]

Hi. Uhm my first time in one of these But i'm hypersexual , and i've been like this since 6.
My hypsersexual thoughts make it so hard to look at people and animals normally as i tend to make it sexual , i also became a corn addict because of it. is there advice for it? ty.

I don't mean to sound gross i genuinely need help for this though and i can't tell anyone else that i know so im asking for strangers help.

[main zinc]

Hi, I just found this post.

From your understanding, do you know how and why it started? It could be from trauma, emotional pain, depression, stress, loneliness, seeking dopamine from fantasies, etc.

What I would reccomend is to first fill your free time with habits or hobbies that will set your mind off from those things and try to set boundaries like screen time.

If you can, you can also try and seek a professional therapist about it! There is a professional therapists who can help on these addictions. They’re called CSAT or “Certified Sex Addiction Therapist”

Its not comfortable to share these with someone you know and I understand that. You were strong enough to ask for help and thats what it matters. Although what I said wasn’t enough, I know you can overcome this. Even if you dont know it. I’ll be on anytime sooner or later if you need anything

[quartz sparrow]

I think trauma and being exposed to corn when i was young.

[quartz sparrow]

Thank you.

[haughty hornet]

Do you think corn amplified these thoughts?

How would you describe your upbringing btw? was corn and sexual stuff normalized in your household

[quartz sparrow]

most likely.

[quartz sparrow]

My dad would watch it infront of me growing up. so i guess

[drowsy scarab]

No wonder 🧐

[haughty hornet]

Yep that makes sense.

the fact you want to do something about it shows you want to be a better person

things are not hopeless trust me. you can reverse the damage done to your brain

are you able to read books?

[haughty hornet]

Ikr, I know some incidents exactly like that

ik abt a 18 yr old girl becoming a corn star cuz her dad would always watch corn infront of her when she was a child 😭

its really messes up the brain

[main zinc]

I’m sorry you went through that. No one should be exposed to things like that so early, especially without support or understanding. Many who struggles with this can also be caused by these reasons so you’re not alone. It basically wires your brain to be feeling comfort even through it will hurt them later.

I am so proud of you for being open to us. It is mainly the hardest step to achieve. Journey might take a while and if you aren’t ready for a therapist, I’ll still be here. There’s still time for a change!

[quartz sparrow]

Thank you. Your very good at comforting and with your words.

[main zinc]

Thank you. I been practicing a bit