i have a ldr bf and we both love each other so much, but here's the thing, he hates my bestfriend bc she was his "ex" (it was a one sided love from my bf's part, and their relationship was only for 3 days), he hates her so much and hates hearing her name bc he found out that she was roleplaying as his gf (she didnt tell me that she wasn't serious about it until after she broke up with him) so he felt that he was being used and all his emotions got wasted after finally opening his heart after years..... and i started talking less to her after i got with him bc i'm in a conflict on what to think of her, i then realized that i was wrong for doing so and that the mistake she did doesn't define who she is bc she is sorry about it, and sent her an apology message 3 days ago, and obviously she is hurt by me and doesn't consider me as a her bff anymore, i don't blame her, and i also don't blame myself bc i didn't mean for anything like that to happen, i was anxious all the time and conflicted, i tried to put myself in her and my bf's shoes and i took a really long time to think, i had no intention in ending our friendship.... so what should i do now? should i text her again and try again? should i tell my bf? i don't wanna lose any of them, i'm afraid
#I really don't know what to do
inner ether
i have a ldr bf and we both love each other so much, but here's the thing, he ha...
The first line and i really relate to it.
strong bay
😭
inner ether
😭
DUDE LITERALLY WHEN I BROKE UP EITH THIS GUY I DATED FOR A WEEK
BECAUSE HE KEEPS FLIRTING WITH ALOT OF GIRLS IN THE COMMENT SECTION
After that my friend literally said
"i think i have a crush on yo ex"
strong bay
BECAUSE HE KEEPS FLIRTING WITH ALOT OF GIRLS IN THE COMMENT SECTION
she also flirted with other men with himm
inner ether
To be honest i cutted off both of them.
strong bay
yes
strong bay
To be honest i cutted off both of them.
:((((
inner ether
But what happened to you and the guy
strong bay
thingg iss she didnt love himm
so is he really her ex?
she is his
but not the other way around
oh also also
i have to tell u this
i was talking to him way before she did, and when she noticed that, she did her best to take his attention towards her
now when i was talking to him, it was all friendly and no flirting or whatever even tho i liked him
but when she did, she used all her cards
it was so obvious that she was trying to make him fall for her
inner ether
i was talking to him way before she did, and when she noticed that, she did her ...
WHAT
Damn that's really immature of her
strong bay
yeah, ig bc she had her eyes on him as well
inner ether
That's not a friend 😭
strong bay
idkkkkkkk
inner ether
@strong bay but did you miss your friendship with her
strong bay
i do, we have been friends for like 10 years
inner ether
what should i do
From my experience
strong bay
aaaaaaaa
inner ether
I just moved on because it was unhealthy of a friendship
strong bay
fair fair
strong bay
yeah
thats why i said that the ghing she did doesn't define her entirely
and she felt sorry about it
strong bay
but also if things worked out between us again, what am i supposed to say to my bf
inner ether
but also if things worked out between us again, what am i supposed to say to my ...
Does he have behavioral issues
Like being immature of things
strong bay
not really, he has been through a lot, and he has some selfharm behaviors bc of it... and whenever i talk about her he would get really hurt and sad and frustrated
i do not blame him
cuz he was already at his lowest point when he was with her
inner ether
He self harmed because of your best friend
inner ether
but she ruined it again
By how
strong bay
He self harmed because of your best friend
he already had that habit long ago, and she was a trigger to it
inner ether
Oh.
inner ether
So you have a decision of
" You wanna come back to your friendship and you don't wanna end it for a stupid reason but your boyfriend will be triggered by it and will be unhappy that you two are friends again"
OR
"remain of what you have.
You don't have your best friend anymore and still have your bf"
Or do you wanna break up with him and get her back?
strong bay
i dont wanna lose anyone
strong bay
@inner ether thank u for giving me some of ur time tho
inner ether
<@1009243898423562250> thank u for giving me some of ur time tho
It's fine i am always here if you need advices
strong bay
i could say the same
inner ether
i could say the same
But.. if anything happens update me anytime