how to pick up guys(masterfully rizz)

[minor nova]

You gotta notice what’s their special interest. Every guy is crazy about a specific thing.
If he’s wearing oddly clean Nike shoes go up and tell him “I like your shoes! Where’d you get them?”, chances are he’ll chimp out about that topic.
Or if he’s wearing a lebron shirt go up and ask him “is that lebron?”, he’ll be SURE to love it.

[silent thorn]

this is good advice ! maybe i’ll start noticeably wearing things i like to potentially attract that back. the part that scares me is the convo, i get shy and overthink if im coming off too boring

[minor nova]

Ohhh don’t worry. Almost everyone in conversations are worried about how they sound, they won’t judge you. And if they do, then that’s DEFINITELY the wrong person.

And also I think that’s a really good idea by noticeably wearing conversation starters.

[silent thorn]

mhmmm i should perhaps stop caring about judgment. easier said than done but, confidence is something id like to improve. and it does help realizing the other will somewhat forget about the interaction if it does go wrong anyways.

[minor nova]

YESS! That’s perfect. A lot of times people will be mean for absolutely no reason and it reflects their own insecurities. You shouldn’t worry about them and just keep your mind steady.
And you’re right, a lot of times people do forget about the interaction even if you think it was really embarrassing.
Confidence does help a lot during situations like these. I think you got this, Kiwi!

[neat narwhal]

Try to go and make the move first
I doubt any guy would hate it

Oh right try not to overdo it cause some girls make guys feel uncomfortable instead

Try to keep a cheerful aura at the beginning instead of a flirtatious one