but the real problem started when we finally started dating. we would obviously be with each other as much as possible and we actually got along. but then that's when i actually got to know her. turns out she actually misses him. she reposts on her tik tok about how she regrets doing that to him and things like that. she obviously loves me and everything but it just seems so. bleak. she told me about him and her and it seems like they've done more than i possibly could. he's met her family and she's met his, they would kiss a lot and actually lay down on a grass field, they would listen to the same music together, she wore his hoodies all the time and the craziest one. they were never dating. it feels like i have no hope, like he's done everything i know i would've done. I've done so much for her like her school work, I modded her 3ds for her, i have her one of my sweaters, i gave her a necklace of her favorite game, i buy her food, i treat her with the absolute most upmost respect i could ever treat her. and it seems like she doesn't even care. im just so lost man she smokes and drinks to "forget about things" she obviously misses her "ex" and worst of all. she doesn't even ask me how i feel. shes a "avoidant attachment" i don't even KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS. i feel like its just an excuse to care about me less. i feel like maybe if i was him i would be loved and cared for. i just want some like advice or something.ive absolutely dreamt about this girl for months snd it seems like it was all just my imagination.
#conflicted
queen zinc
prisma mulch
but the real problem started when we finally started dating. we would obviously ...
The advice is send this message to her
Not here
prisma mulch
Then just sit back and watch it crumble
queen zinc
i think i will man
at least maybe
ill see it coming
won't hurt that bad if you know its coming
queen zinc
Lack of communication breaks relationship
the craziest fact is
we've actually already talked about it
but it seems like
nothings changed
she knows i hate her smoking and drinking and all that
she knows i dont like her talking abiut him
she knows
but it seems like she just ignores it
so i feel like
its just gonna keep coming
prisma mulch
Look bruh from what it sounds like ... You actually did all you could. The only bad thing was you were not communicating properly from the start. Well that aside you are not the problem and you can do nothing about it. Talk it out even if it means losing her. You can end it yourself rather than patiently Waiting for it to crumble apart.
queen zinc
damn
well
i think i will
ill talk to her about it tomorrow
thanks for taking the time man
prisma mulch
thanks for taking the time man
Np
queen zinc
rlly appreciate it