Wops

[sacred cedar]

maybe try to understand the dynamics a little bit more. From your last paragraph it seems like you have thoughts that there is a possibility where she acts romantically with u. So might as well (causally and subtly) ask her about her sexuality a bit more so your thought can be built on something more real rather than like delusions and fear.

Other than that i feel like if u accidentally cross the line perhaps your bond will be great enough that shel talk to u about it

and like resolve it

Rather than just distance

[hushed atlas]

I kinda don't want to since she just broke up with her ex very recently (mid March)

And I don't know if there is any chance if there's something will happen between us romantically

[sacred cedar]

just ask subtly you feel me like talk about anime and see if she thinks lesbian couples are cool

like subtle stuff

just to get more of an idea

[sacred cedar]

look the worst thing u can do is overthink it

dyk Macbeth??

[hushed atlas]

Wait what does lesbian couples have to do with this? T-T

I'm a guy btw

[sacred cedar]

oops

[hushed atlas]

Yeah but haven't read it nor watch any plays

[sacred cedar]

wait is he a guy

or a girl

[hushed atlas]

A girl

[sacred cedar]

so ur like the guy best friend

[hushed atlas]

Yep

[sacred cedar]

mbb 😭😭 that changes shit

[hushed atlas]

Very lol

[sacred cedar]

I think for the question whether u should reciprocate equally, I don't think u should

ofc if she hugs u hug her back

but like if ur even slightly confused whether she's being romantic just slow down completely

[hushed atlas]

That's what I'm thinking as wel and prolly I should ask if she's interested in maybe forehead kisses cuz I am prone in doing that to anyone that I hug when they cry

So maybe I should ask something like that as well

Also I kinda wanted to cook something for her in the morning before she leave to go home

I don't know if that will leave any romantic connotations; prolly yes, but I think that's just me wanting to make her see that's how much I care and love her even if its platonic

[sacred cedar]

as long as your intentions are pure alongside ur actions nothing can go wrong

so u got ts bro

[hushed atlas]

Thanks a million m8

I mean I know that I just got to be myself and support her whenever she needs a shoulder or chest to cry on cuz the weight of her being in a toxic relationship really broke her

I just needed anyone's second opinion about being real is the right way T-T