I just came out of a first date with a girl that I didn’t know all to well.I thought I had a really good time with her but when I got back home, she blocked me on everything. Now I’m sitting here wondering why I’m so devastated by that. It was a first date, so I’m not sure why I feel so emotionally about this
#Is it weird to be sad about losing a first date
chilly topaz
marble coral
It's probably because you really liked her
It's probably because you really liked her
marble coral
We're you dating someone before this date?
chilly topaz
I haven’t dated in almost a year
marble coral
I haven’t dated in almost a year
That could be the reason why, I must ask tho, were u like in a serious relationship?
marble coral
That is probably why
You probably feel like you aren't enough or tht you can't hold down a relationship, your last relationship ending and then you getting blocked on all socials by a girl you only went on a single date with could definitely make you doubt yourself or make you feel like you're not enough
chilly topaz
That was a nearly a year ago
I’ve gotten over her
I’ve had lots of flings between
marble coral
But it still could contribute to making you feel like that
Why did your relationship end? if you don't mind me asking ofc
chilly topaz
A girl convinced her that I cheated
She believed
And I didn’t even get a chance to explain myself
That same girl then tried to get with me
I’ve been single ever since
marble coral
Yep, I'm like 80% sure now
When you got blocked you probably thought about how you've been unsuccessful in getting into a real relationship and about if you weren't really enough or something like that because she didn't even think you were worth listening to, she didn't love you enough to hear you out
That's my theory at this moment
I rarely know you so of course, I don't expect to be accurate
chilly topaz
It’s the first time I really get rejected like this
It’s weird
And pretentious
But I don’t usually get rejected
marble coral
I was also never given a reason as to why I was blocked
Exactly
The same thing happened with your ex
She didn't give you a chance to explain yourself
marble coral
She didn't give you a chance to explain yourself
It's definitely connected
Hey, dude
It's not always your fault
Sometimes it's also the girls fault
chilly topaz
If she didn’t like me to begin with then she wouldn’t have gone on a date with me
marble coral
If she didn't understand your value then she wasn't the one for you
marble coral
If she didn’t like me to begin with then she wouldn’t have gone on a date with m...
You did your best, and that's all you could do
It's not your fault my guy
If she doesn't get your worth then she for the streets
chilly topaz
It doesnt matter if my worth is understood, she liked me
Something must’ve happened that caused that to change
marble coral
I think that my theory was correct
marble coral
Something must’ve happened that caused that to change
Think about it, did you do something that could be the reason?
marble coral
Then it was not your fault
marble coral
I thought I did it all right
And you did, you probably weren't what she was looking for at that time
chilly topaz
It could’ve been my fault and I just don’t know what I did
marble coral
It could’ve been my fault and I just don’t know what I did
It wasn't dude, if it was then be careful on your next date, try to remember everything you do. Trust me, if she blocked you despite you doing nothing wrong then it was definitely her fault
chilly topaz
I’ve gone on loads of successful dates and this is the first time something like this happens