God i’ve loved this girl for months she’s so perfect to me but last time it didn’t work out and we stopped taking for awhile but we’re talking a lot again and she is having some problems and i just can’t stand to see her go through these problems especially without seeing how much someone truly loves her she’s so beautiful, nice, caring, i could go on for hours about how much i love her but i’m to scared to ask her and don’t know what to even say. Please help me i really want this
#Please just help me ask her out
coarse gulch
sharp ibex
Don’t ask her out
Sounds like your motivation for asking her out is a savior complex
You think you’re the one you can help her through this by being with her
That is not good motivation for you to be with her
Help her through whatever she’s going through as a friend
And pursue a relationship once she has a clear mind, that way she can make an educated decision with a calm mind on whether she wants it or not
You may not be intentionally doing it, but asking someone out while they’re going through something is always manipulative
coarse gulch
Sounds like your motivation for asking her out is a savior complex
oops sorry for wording it like that, but i’ve just wanted to ask her out so i can express my love for her and pursue a relationship with her, i’ve been helping her with her mental even as just a friend, but even then i never realized that it was manipulative in a way so thank you a lot for telling me this!!