Am I being oversensitive?

[thin pine]

My friends that ive been friends for a year or so, Ive been trying to get closer, everytime i convince mysekf we are close, but then next day they jokingly call me names like monster or crazy or egg or monkey or not human, i dont think they mean it in a bad way, their just telling the truth i think. I do get over hyper in public and multiple occasions got myself the crazy girl in school. But today they posted that they went to movies, and it made me see that, im never invited to anything, i know their nice and jokingly mean and honest but to my heart it stings and hurts a lot even though i know its the truth and they all been friends longer than i showed up. So am I being oversensitive? How do I make his pain feeling go away? How dO I cope?

[sly swift]

Well if someone genuinely calls you a monster and not in some jokingly manner you should reconsider being friends with them

And to be honest people can only be jokingly insultive if they are hanging out with you alot, and inviting you. (Otherwise its just rude)

And really pay attention to how the jokes are made, are they made to make you laugh, or their friends laugh?

You can tell alot by that

[summer violet]

I don't think you're oversensitive dude

But like

Those name they called you is probably based on how close they are to you

Idk if you tell them that you're not okay with it or not

If you're not then it's up for you to leave and find new friends or stay

[meager harness]

The movie part bro
Why didn't they invite you
They might not prioritize you as much as do about them
But ask them about it

[thin pine]

i always just try to laugh and brush it off

[thin pine]

i did

[thin pine]

oh

[meager harness]

And what did they say

[thin pine]

i asked hows the movie, they said great

[meager harness]

Why didn't you ask why you weren't invited

[thin pine]

well its the multiple time tho, i asked them at the start whwn they hung out, but i always say it jokingly so i dont seem too rude