For those people who have someone to text to. I'm going through that one phase in life where I just have absolutely no one to talk to and need serious help. what do you do? How'd you meet them? and how do you keep these relations going? It seems that I've never been able to keep a stable relationship with anyone be it online or in real life.
#Keys to a long lasting friendship
warm cairn
For me, the number one key is at least one common interest or hobby. Pretty much all of my long lasting friendships check that box
warm cairn
🤝
steel berry
That's my biggest problem
warm cairn
I also have this problem. I don't know how I do it, but sometimes it just happens. I usually get to know someone new through someone I already know
steel berry
Mutuals?
warm cairn
And yes, approaching strangers is scary
steel berry
And yes, approaching strangers is scary
It really is
Its not like scary scary
But its like
"What are they gonna think about me" kinda thing
Yk
warm cairn
Approaching someone with the intent of friendship: scary
Approaching someone with the intent of something more than friendship: terrifying
steel berry
Yeah my first impressions are terrible
But the more someone gets to know me
The better it gets
warm cairn
I remember how I got to know one of my good friends irl. We met thanks to his mom, who's my mom's coworker
steel berry
Thats cool
I kinda wished id spent more time with the people that actually seemed interested in me
warm cairn
My first impressions are usually alright. I'm more concerned about people getting to know me on a deeper level. That could turn them away
warm cairn
I kinda wished id spent more time with the people that actually seemed intereste...
If you get the chance, go for it.
steel berry
I REALLY wanna talk to this one person thats been giving me hints for a very long time
But now that i changed schools its really hard to catch up with him
warm cairn
What kind of hints?
warm cairn
Oh yeah, those are some good signs
warm cairn
So you just wanna be friends with him?