#I'm living with a monster

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stiff palm
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I found out my dad is cheating on my mom with alot of girls, he talks to them in the messenger app and I'm too young for these stuff so I need advices.

He is using his money for this app to talk to girls and he recently made us bankrupt and now the bank only sends money to my mother but not him, he apparently is strict and I really can't handle him since he is bigger twice than me and stronger.

He is a pedophile aswell, I saw him take a picture of a naked girl at the lake when I was going to swim, I was changing and I saw him take the picture and I really understood what was going on.

I'm only a 14 year old kid, and he uses my bank card to purchase cash for the app he uses to talk to girls and I want to keep it away from my mother since it can cause negativity, i really don't want my mother to get hurt.

But my mother aswell is always on his side when we talk about my dad, I want her to actually find out herself and my dad is a guy that I hate mostly he literally mastur¤¤its to naked pictures and I mean it, while I was taking a picture with my dad on his phone I literally saw something naked and I'm really terrified.

I don't want this to be happening to my children when I am an adult, so is there an advice i could do to stay away from this and try to stop him from using my card? Today he was supposed to give me an allowance and he said he didn't have any and just later on I saw him spend 13 dollars on the stupid app.

sterile lagoon
stiff palm
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I'm in Sweden

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I hope you don't cause anything serious, since basically everything ruins my life.

sterile lagoon
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Oh my. I am also from Sweden. And if I were you, I would highly suggest reaching out to SOS. Because this is very concerning.

stiff palm
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No

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They ruined my life

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I tried once

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They told my parents.

sterile lagoon
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And what happened?

stiff palm
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My parents were furious

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I had to act like the teacher lied

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and everything

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Until now it's forgotten

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I will never contact any SOS ever again

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I just rn have to experience this problem, I will move out to the United States when I'm 18

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I'm leaving him behind and I will have the greatest future.

sterile lagoon
stiff palm
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I don't want to go near sweden

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I don't want my children to be there.

sterile lagoon
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Why?

stiff palm
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Because it's a nightmare

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I also know english more than swedish

sterile lagoon
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Is Sweden a nightmare, or are your parents the nightmare?

stiff palm
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Everything

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Gosh I really can't handle this, he just makes me want to kill myself

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But I won't

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Since my future is waiting for me.

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One day he will get what he deserves.

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When he is old and lonely, I won't help him.

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When my mother is, I'll take her out to land experience nature, something he never gave her.

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That stupid ashole

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I hate him so much, and I hope he burns in hell.

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Before he was such a great guy

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Going to the gym

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being positive

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prays alot

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now he just sits home, asking my siblings to get him water or a drink or something.

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He can't even take me to school

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He smokes

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He was beautiful and now he is broken

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I can't fix him, he deserves to be in hell.

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That child predator

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That son of satan

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I want advices

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because I'm losing my mind

sterile lagoon
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I think it's very wise of you to keep going. That's very strong of you. But right now @stiff palm, I think you should take some time to calm down.

stiff palm
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I just can't take it with him

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he shouts at my mom

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ignores her

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he is lazy

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I just want one day to go up at him and beat him up

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He is not a father

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he is a monster

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he is diablo

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I hate him so much

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I hope he burns

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I don't want him anymore

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he kicked out my brother

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and only brought my brother back to pay the bills

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he shouts at them for not getting their money

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He compares them to other teenagers

sterile lagoon
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The best thing you can do @stiff palm is to distance yourself from your father as much as possible. That might make it easier to deal with. In the meantime, you'll have to wait it out until you can move out.

stiff palm
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Stin when I grow up, I'll remind my kids about you

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to always come to this server.

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Please trust me one day, you will see me come back as a proud father.

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I'll give you the payback for something that actually helped.

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I'll go around the world visiting countries, making this server prouder than it is.

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You will be in my memories forever.

sterile lagoon
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I'm very honored to hear that. No payback needed. I gladly do this for free.

stiff palm
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I will make my children call you uncle, since you basically like a brother for helping me.

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I will give the childhood I never got.

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I will tell you my life, is that okay if I tell you in dms?

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Maybe like advices you could help me when I get a girl?

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I'll even tell you I got one.

sterile lagoon
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I'm bad at responding to people, but when I have time, I could hear you out. :)

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If I could give you one more advice, it would be, stay in Sweden. Move out. Go where ever you want. But stay in Sweden. We have a very good welfare system that the US don't have. I'd highly recommend staying. But definitely travel the world. 😄

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I think you have a good life ahead of you man. You know what they say:

"De som väntar på nåt gott väntar aldrig för länge." @stiff palm 😅