#About the girl I like
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i think she has made it pretty clear, in multiple ways, that she’s not interested dear :// it’s not just about her being busy—she’s set boundaries (the picture thing, the friend request, and now finding you “creepy”). That word alone is a big sign to back off i think, because once someone sees you as "creepy," it’s really hard to change that perception, atleast from what ive seen <//3
but im def all for you bettering yourself! bettering yourself or self improvisation is a lot easier when you are doing it to impress somebody but i think doing it just because you want to be better is a very good enough reason
in my opinion the best thing you can do for now is give her space and slowly move on, if she decides to see you in a different light and recognize your efforts to better yourself, she will make that known
I'm slowly realizing that I have no chance anymore because what you said is what others said too, but I really have genuine feelings for her 😢 I've already apologized to Mary and after she forgives me I will apologize to Arriane but either way I'd still apologize
i'm actually not sure if she really exposed me but based on what she said " I told Renee about everything you've done " it seems like shes trying to scare me but didn't acutally send it, i'm unsure
It’s hard to say for sure, ive seen people say things like "I told them everything" just to make someone feel guilty or to test their reaction but at this point, it doesn’t really change much
apologising to her was the right move dear, arriane too but i suggest dont make it too long, just short and sincere, smth like "hey, I just want to apologize for making you uncomfortable. I didn’t mean any harm, but I realize now that I crossed some boundaries. I respect your space, and I won’t bother you again" so she doesnt think youre guiltripping her or anything
hey, i've apologized to mary and she forgave me. i'm about to ask if she actually told Arrianne. if she didn't do you think I still have a chance?
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for now i think its best you dont initiate anything with her, maybe just keep being friends for now
well okay
personal opinion: she doesnt like you in that way but doesnt really wanna break your heart
and yeah she probably got shy and a little uncomfortable by the picture thing
she could be uncomfortable because you are making it really obvious that you like her and she doesnt wanna break your heart but doesnt wanna be with you either so its like she doesnt really know what to do you know
Oh I see
I would say it’s likely she doesn’t like you. She made it clear. You don’t wanna try to force this to happen. Think about it from her pov. She probably just didn’t wanna break your heart. Gl though.
I found out abt something, so ive apologized to mary and she told me she only told arrianne about me having an m.u while liking arrianne and me calling arriannes friend cute. so what can i do? irdk 😢 idk what to apologize about cuz i feel like if i apologize she wont care anyways cuz mary said her reaction was to pick her friend instead
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