Just got broken up with

[crimson vector]

@glossy cape oof I know it doesn't feel this way but you dodged a bullet

You clearly put in a lot of effort to this relationship and not having it be reciprocated and then getting dumped is super unfair

[glossy cape]

yeahhhh

i didd T-T

[glossy cape]

it feels so unfair to me

[crimson vector]

Also saying her exams are more important yours is a weirdly competitive and messed up thing to say

[glossy cape]

exactlyy

that's what i thought too

she literally started comparing them T-T

like i didn't even say anything about them-

and i didn't undermine hers either? 😭

idk how to move on or heal though, like where do i start?

[crimson vector]

Can i dm?

[crimson vector]

I'm not an expert but for me when this happened I had to focus on all the things I was missing out on while being in a relationship, like for example my ex-partner used to get weird over me having long phone calls with my mom so I'd acknowledge and try to enjoy that I didn't have to feel bad about it anymore

Spending time with people who build you up also really does help

Like people who enjoy your company and are actually genuinely happy to be around you just to remind yourself that you aren't too much

People who are emotionally unavailable have a tendency of making you feel like your needs and your feelings are overbearing but that's a reflection of their own inability to love and nurture as they don't have the capacity. Remind yourself that you can do that. All the effort that you put into her, give it to yourself instead.

[glossy cape]

yessss sure

dm me

[glossy cape]

ooohhhhh

[glossy cape]

righttt

yeahhh

[glossy cape]

YEAHHHH

that's SO REAL

[glossy cape]

ohh, thankyouu