Bf asked for a break

[rain saffron]

He said he hopes you respect that decision, so trying to do something to get him back would probably just make it worse.

[viscid holly]

I know I just dont know what to do, I told him I'd give him all the space he needed so we can get back together

am I just not supposed to text him at all until he texts first

[rain saffron]

That's how it usually goes yeah. "I need to take some time apart", "I need space", and "I need time to figure out" etc. make that clear.

[viscid holly]

it just really hurts I wanted to do things together to help each other but apparently I was making it worse
so now ig I have to be patient and wait for him
I dont know how long it'll take

[rain saffron]

Not knowing how long it'll take is the worst part, unfortunately.
But there's nothing else to do at this point. If he think this is unhealthy, then trying to drag him into an unhealthy relationship won't end well.

[viscid holly]

yeah true

this just really sucks

n I just want to stop crying

[rain saffron]

It does, and even though it seems he got hurt, it's kind of mean to leave you hanging like this.

[viscid holly]

I found out that he was going to therapy for 2 months. I knew he was pulling away I just thought I was imagining it

he was never the time to be able to talk about his feelings

he chokes up on it and can't speak

I always thought if I gave him time it'll slowly get better

yesterday was an improvement
he did sent texts while I talked

[rain saffron]

I hope it goes well