#bpd

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plush mesa
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i have so many questions regarding this and i just dont know what to do

distant shell
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i think its different for everyone im not on meds for it currently due to issue with my heart i typically isolate myself alot and just hate everyone and when im alone for a bit then come back i generally feel better but i do recommend talking to your psychiatrist

plush mesa
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i see, yeah thank you. its about someone i know, theyre on meds but they refuse to talk to psychiatrist, its been a long time since ive last talked so i just wanted to know how long does the splitting lasts but yeah its different for everyone and theres no estimated time for it.

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do they really the mean the things they say when theyre splitting?

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cause ive been told to many harsh/mean things but in the past they already mentioned the splitting and told me that its so worse when it happens and now i can see it now.

distant shell
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I do hate when I’m splitting and people trap me and try get me to talk shit out that really pisses me off or treat me differently cause of my stuff

plush mesa
plush mesa
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good sleep is necessary when you're having your episodes right

distant shell
plush mesa
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ahh sadly the person im talking about doesn't sleep and neither does eat enough

distant shell
plush mesa
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its been almost 3 weeks now since the splitting..

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i have lost the contact and the hate they have for me is unimaginable

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i still see them being awake till 4-5 and then waking up at 9-10

distant shell
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yeah how old are they by chance and do they self harm

plush mesa
distant shell
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ok they should 100% seek treatment

plush mesa
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they should but they don't i have tried so much but they just refuse cause when they did it before it didn't go very well and now they think its pointless

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they didn't tell their mom about it until 2 weeks ago and hide it for 6-7 years and after that her mom helped her and now shes on meds

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i have one more thing if you dont mind

distant shell
plush mesa
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does devaluation stays forever or does it change, i know it kinda depends but still how is it with you?

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has it happened to you?

distant shell
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yeah

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when i think people are stupid or not worth my time or if im really worried of what they think about me i just leave them on seen or delivered

plush mesa
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I see

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its hard i have seen it, one bad moment can ruin an entire relationship with bpd and they'll have trust issues with you after that

distant shell
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yeah depends with person to person age and a factor of things is she like your partner or your just friends

plush mesa
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we were friends at first but then partners

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we used to talk about it and she knew one day it'll happen and its gonna be worse she used to say she dont want to split on me ever but unfortunately its not something we can control

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i really wish i knew this much before so i couldve done something better

distant shell
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yeah best thing is psychiatrist and a therapist i have both and meds which all helps heaps

plush mesa
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yeah

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how do you deal with low self esteem?

distant shell
plush mesa
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ohh i see

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i think its better to seek help when you see the bpd symptoms, she hide it and now its not any easy in any way

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thank you for this!! i hope you don't mind if i ask anything when i have in my mind cause it's all i think about

distant shell
plush mesa
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i understand

plush mesa