#Me :(

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flint quiver
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I’ve been feeling stuck when it comes to how I interact with people. I feel like my sense of humor often doesn’t land right, and it can make things awkward. Sometimes I end up being quiet, but even then, I feel like I’m not connecting with others the way I want to. I’m not sure if I should keep trying to be funny or just stay silent. I’m struggling with figuring out how to express myself in a way that feels natural without feeling misunderstood or awkward.

real zealot
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try to find someone, see how you feel

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if you can't find yourself there, look for someone else

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and keep going until you find the right one

flint quiver
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I'm having this problem with a community not just a friend

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It's me

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Not them

real zealot
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It's normal to not feel comfortable in some groups

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you have to look for the right people

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otherwise it will always be like this

flint quiver
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They all respect me but I just keep making stuff awkward with my terrible sense of humor and I can't adjust or make it any better it's frustrating

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I just can't understand how it works

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I wanna get closer to them but every time I try I make things worse

real zealot
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try to talk about it w them

flint quiver
real zealot
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ask them if you can talk about how you feel

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and look for a solution

flint quiver
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It's that I make terrible puns

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That makes every situation awkward

real zealot
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nah

flint quiver
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It might be that I am trying too hard to fit in

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Idk

real zealot
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you have to find someone who plays along with your jokes

flint quiver
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You're right

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I know one guy that did

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And made the situation from awkward to funny

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Well alright then

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Ty for trying to help out it meant alot to me

real zealot
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js find the right people

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and it will be all fine