How to forget things about her past

[alpine knot]

(Sorry if i am bad at explaining)

So i have a girlfriend and i am together with her for 8 months. We had our up and downs throughout the relationship and there is one thing that always completely ruins me and that is her past. I met her on a discord server where we all knew each other and there she did dirty roleplay with B (like roleplaying that he is f*cking her) and stuff or when she was talking to her ex while we were together. I forgave her for the many mistakes she did because of how much i loved her but now its all haunting me. I keep having bad moods and js being sad because i remember her doing all that. Please help me cuz this is fr tearing me apart.

[lost dome]

Hey mate, I get how you feel, I'm in a long distance relationship and I get looking back on the past. Um, I mean as hard as it might me. Have you tried to talk about it with her at all?

[balmy ginkgo]

You chose to date her as she was

You signed up for this

….. she doesn’t still talk to these people right??

Regardless i think dating people you meet in sex roleplay discords is a pretty ungreat idea.

[lost dome]

Hey mate, just be be chill.

[balmy ginkgo]

If reality is ‘triggering’ that says more about you than me

[alpine knot]

It wasnt a sex roleplay server bro

It was js a normal server

[alpine knot]

I did and she said that i should maybe go therapy or smth

She is kinda stupid

[alpine knot]

She has no contact with him anymore no