Fron what i read its like something happen when you were gone have you tried wanting and explanation or something or he just blow you off?
#I'm lost..
limpid cairn
lofty bough
He says he doesn't know, he just woke up (with me next to him) and didint feel anything for me anymore.
I asked if I can fix it and he said no. I asked if he met someone else and he said no. He said he just fell out of love but lied to me, making me believe he loved me when he wanted nothing to do with me
limpid cairn
He says he doesn't know, he just woke up (with me next to him) and didint feel a...
Wow that sounds sus like something is bothering him (it could only be me but idk) did you feel something like that or like he was straight serious?
lofty bough
He was serious, I was bawling and he just said he was sorry but his heart chose something else, he said that he just didint love me.
limpid cairn
I asked if I can fix it and he said no. I asked if he met someone else and he sa...
wait are you saying hes been lying you for a long time?
lofty bough
The thing is, he acted like everything was fine, we ate together, sang and danced, we had intimacy very often but the whole time he knew he didint love me
I dont know how long he's been lying...
limpid cairn
He was serious, I was bawling and he just said he was sorry but his heart chose ...
thats very strange cuz you cant just fell out of love with someone like that and in fact i dont think you can fell out of love in any moment you just grow up with the fact that you are not with that person anymore
lofty bough
It was so random, I didint see it coming and I'm crushed. He said he loved me more then anything right before I left and now...im nothing to him...idk how to cope...idk what I'm gonna do
limpid cairn
The thing is, he acted like everything was fine, we ate together, sang and dance...
i suppose you were friends before that did you told him something that he would feel sorry for cuz alot of times people just get with people cuz they feel sorry for them (i hope its not that)
lofty bough
We were perfect. We like all the same things, and his niece even calls me auntie, I know this is gonna crush her. I didn't say anything while we were friends like that. We had an instant connection. And it was like the wifi was un-plugged because it's just gone...
limpid cairn
It was so random, I didint see it coming and I'm crushed. He said he loved me mo...
i had a situation one time where my gf left me without giving me any reason and then we got back together after some time and it wasn't that she didnt love me rather something that happend was bothering her and she couldn't tell me so she chose to break up (she told me eventually) do you think it can be something like that?
lofty bough
He shared everything woth me, I've seen him at his worst and best, he knows he can tell me everything and I used his phone often and nothing was wrong, I asked many times if something was bothering him and all he could say was "no. I just don't love you anymore"
Those words were a dagger right through my heart
I have severe BPD and yes I'm on meds but this.....this is stronger than any meds can help
limpid cairn
He shared everything woth me, I've seen him at his worst and best, he knows he c...
i think he definitely hiding something. It can be that he dreamt of something disturbing to him or something idk but it can just happen like that
have you tried contancting him after that
lofty bough
I just don't know how to move on.
Yes. And he's very cold
He never writes a sentence
Just yes or no
I feel like I'm literally falling apart
limpid cairn
I just don't know how to move on.
Im not expert in this cuz it was always easy for me but you can go to like therapy or something so you can talk with people that have expiriance in that area i think this will help
limpid cairn
no worries just like it sounds serious so like try and talk to people that specialise in that
ive gone more than one time and it helps every time
lofty bough
Thank you very much