Have u ever had any issues w similiar stuff before?
#i broke up with my boyfriend
severe ruin
velvet axle
Have u ever had any issues w similiar stuff before?
no, we had never had this issue. it was totally unexpected, i never thought he would do that.
severe ruin
then in my opinion, I think that u should give him another chance. I don’t think it’s worth losing a whole 2 year relationship and people are definitely capable of change especially for the people they love. Based off what u said it seems like he is and I think starting off as friends is a good idea
if it was a 1-6 month relationship I would think differently, but having the privilege of finding someone that you’re happy with for 2 years is really special and is extremely hard to come by
also, has he been respectful to all other boundaries and wishes?
velvet axle
then in my opinion, I think that u should give him another chance. I don’t think...
it is very special but it’s difficult when he had been doing it several times secretly. i just think about if i had never found out, he would probably continue doing it. as for other boundaries and wishes, he has been pretty respectful, only thing is that he started becoming less initiative on going on dates. when i asked to go out somewhere for a date, he’d just go in pajamas then sometimes just told me to go alone and he’d wait in the car. or sometimes he’d just ignore what i planned out for us and just take me to his house for you know what. it felt like he just stopped trying and just wanted to hit basically.