M14 and F18??

[crimson hamlet]

are you 18 or 14 if you dm me asking

[deep herald]

Im 14 shes 18

[spare magnet]

definitely not okay. shes taking advantage of you

[deep herald]

I understand but i know her for 1 year know and shi didnt do shi yk? I had an terrible realationship rn and i broke up and i need smth new

[spare magnet]

its illegal, youre not above the age of consent so she cant date you. it’d basically make her a predator lol. id say find someone else, who knows what she’ll do if you guys get into a relationship

theres a huge maturity gap between you and her, making you incredibly vulnerable to her. i dont want you to be taken advantage of or something worse to happen. even if she doesn’t do anything its still illegal and not okay

[deep herald]

U have some good points but in my country its legal and i was in a relationship with an 17 yr old it wasnt that good but i believe it could work i just... idk

[rugged ice]

its tecnically not illegal unles yall freakin

[spare magnet]

ohhhh right i forgot it’s different for other countries

its still weird though

[deep herald]

Ye its sounds weard ofc but if it work? It wouldnt be that bad lol

[spare magnet]

ig its not weird in other countries tho

well its your choice, i just dont want her to take advantage of you. its pretty easy for adults to do that

[deep herald]

Ye i give you that but i dont fw girls in my age idk why

[rugged ice]

bc our people our age are fuking stupid

(I'm 15 and ating an 18 yo too gang lmao)

[deep herald]

Ye i agree like i just got out of a relationship bcs i got r@ped and shi she was 17

[small bear]

Bruh jus date people your age. It's easier and you can explore together like you're sposed to.

[deep herald]

I can explore too with an older women lol

[dapper light]

ight bro so where i’m from that’s legal and it’s also legal to freak off but idk man it’s kinda weird it’s a big age difference but you can try tho (older women are good asf ngl so Do what you can’t let)

[dapper delta]

Nah that’s wild stick to school

You don’t need to be dating anyone rn

You’re 14 💀

You got your priorities all mixed up

[deep herald]

Im gonna do ty lol

[deep herald]

Its my last year in school lol so it should be okay

[small bear]

What was the point in asking us? Some kind of brag?

[deep herald]

No, I just wanted to ask your opinion lol. I don't think it's really a boast

[plucky vault]

Omg dream. Definetely okay. Enjoy beeing in heaven ma boy

[upper ivy]

going from relationship to relationship is terrible trust me

u need time alone

[upper ivy]

you also can not legally consent

yeah so this is a bad idea ™️

meaning-- this will end up bad

trust

[rugged ice]

is that a johnny razar reference

[upper ivy]

no

[dusk sentinel]

Can you tell me a bit more. How did this start? How long have you known her? Have you talked about the fact that you have a gap between you and her?
Since you are both legal, it´s not perse a problem, but its important to have clear communication. That fact she is more experienced and older than you can be a strength if she has good intentions. But another factor is your own maturity, and experience.
But please elaborate a bit more.

[dire rampart]

She knew you since you were 13?? That’s creepy. Ask yourself why she can’t find someone in her age. And, since 4 years isn’t that bad, would you date a 10 year old as a 14 year old yourself?

[deep herald]

I had her on Snapchat and we met a little later and the connection worked out. I always had smth with older woman lol idk why.

[plucky vault]

Yeah I feel you

[broken barn]

I wouldn’t compare those two relationships as there is a huge shift in maturity which I believe should be the ultimate factor when deciding on whether a relationship is appropriate

[deep herald]

It has to be right for her, I would say that I'm older than 14 mentally

[deep herald]

10 and 14 cannot rlly be compared with 14 and 18

[rugged ice]

that's a elementry schooler with a high schooler
this is high school with high school

bc by that logic its the same as 35 and 39

which is a completely normal relationship

[upper ivy]

like i said

this will not end well

[gusty geyser]

18yr old females are less likely to take advantage of you but that doesnt mean she doesnt

[gusty geyser]

yeah its like, females are much less likely to take advantage of u like 80 or 90% percent of peds are male but yea there whas also one that filmed of or ph in a school

[broken barn]

that’s not true, both genders use people for attention pretty equally. peds aren’t the only example of taking advantage of

[deep herald]

Ye i heard that shi to lol

Ye ik ik i have many problems and shi and i need someone who leads me