#I don't know what to do
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first of all, learn to be a person and enjoy yourself outside of your friends
like get hobbies and stuff
and also don't put all your eggs into one basket, where all your happiness relies on just one or two friends
I know how that feels. I also have a dear friend that I even see as my own sister. She's so nice and everything and I feel like I can trust her with anything even my life. Exaggerating, I know. But that's how much I trust her. I will always come to her for anything, and she also does the same thing to me. But recently, we have grown apart, and it makes me feel so sad and stressed out. But after a while, I notice, I can't depend on her like this, it might be bothersome for them (even though I know she would never think like that). We have a different life, different responsibilities, different fate and everything. We are only so close because we experienced the same thing and have been helping each other's backs. So when I got the chance, I talked it out to her, and also listened to her opinion on how we should go on from here, what kind of friendship we want to apply here. And we decided to go on our way, searching for our own purpose and goals in life, reaching for our future. But, we make a promise, that we will always have each other's contact and one day will meet again in the future. I'm not letting her go, I'm still holding her hands, but I am also holding my future, and dreams which she also in it
thx that help a lot:)
tbh I worry about that person too for the whole day and i won't know what to do about that as well i always think the worst so far that I can't sleep what should I do about that
Find something that u enjoy like a hobbie I like to mess around with Legos while watching something like a show
I have been trying to do a hobby but everything seems boring and all in my mind is just me wandering when she gets online
You don't have to overthink everything. Just, if you finally got the chance to talk to them again, speak your worries out, and try to find the solution together. I'm sure it'll go just fine as long you're being honest and understanding towards each other