#I don't know what to do

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lavish fern
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It has just been a day when my friend has not been online for the whole day but I have been so dependent on my friends that I can't feel happiness when they are not online I can't even feel a smile on my face anymore I need help.

scarlet mist
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first of all, learn to be a person and enjoy yourself outside of your friends

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like get hobbies and stuff

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and also don't put all your eggs into one basket, where all your happiness relies on just one or two friends

vital bear
# lavish fern It has just been a day when my friend has not been online for the whole day but ...

I know how that feels. I also have a dear friend that I even see as my own sister. She's so nice and everything and I feel like I can trust her with anything even my life. Exaggerating, I know. But that's how much I trust her. I will always come to her for anything, and she also does the same thing to me. But recently, we have grown apart, and it makes me feel so sad and stressed out. But after a while, I notice, I can't depend on her like this, it might be bothersome for them (even though I know she would never think like that). We have a different life, different responsibilities, different fate and everything. We are only so close because we experienced the same thing and have been helping each other's backs. So when I got the chance, I talked it out to her, and also listened to her opinion on how we should go on from here, what kind of friendship we want to apply here. And we decided to go on our way, searching for our own purpose and goals in life, reaching for our future. But, we make a promise, that we will always have each other's contact and one day will meet again in the future. I'm not letting her go, I'm still holding her hands, but I am also holding my future, and dreams which she also in it

lavish fern
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thx that help a lot:)

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tbh I worry about that person too for the whole day and i won't know what to do about that as well i always think the worst so far that I can't sleep what should I do about that

idle drift
lavish fern
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I have been trying to do a hobby but everything seems boring and all in my mind is just me wandering when she gets online

vital bear