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keen portal
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i just got with a girl who was unsure of if she wanted to be with me or anyone really because she is afraid of people and she doesn't like people talking about her exc. she has been diagnoses with social anxiety and probably depression or someething i havent been filled in yet. then we went to a party, never seen her have so much fun. it was the most fun she's had in ages she said. then we went back to her place and hooked up, this was about a week ago and yesterday she just got off snap completely, even messagages, she didn't respond to anyone for 21 hours, and she was about 2 hours away from home. when she finally got back on i asked what happened and why she didn't respond for so long i got no answer and what she was doing the hole time, she just turned to the thing i said about me finding my airpods. then she proceedds to ghost everyone once in a while and just seems off, angry ish. i really dont understand what she's going through or what it is. is this anything i've done or is this just her? everything has been fine with us two since yesterday, i have no clue about what i did and couldn't have done anything really cuz i fell asleep at 3pm
Please help ❤️

eager girder
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i feel like in this case obviously as you said she had been diagnosed with social anxiety and depression which is not a good combination to mix in a human being. Meaning that a lot of the things she will do she'll be confused or second guessing herself constantly. what you need to make sure you are doing is that you are supporting her constantly and making sure she feels loved in any way physically possible. don't stress at all remember you guys are dating! she trusts you and vice versa.

keen portal
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tysm, helped alot. just the stressing part lmao, i asked her if i did anything wrong but she hasn't open the snap yet, so the thing i'm most afraid for is that i did anything😅

eager girder
keen portal
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alr ty

keen portal
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I’ve waited a couple of days, she is still dry texting me and ghosting me, i asked if i had done anything wrong she said no. I watch through her reposts on tiktok and i see alot of reposts of a «guy» but the way she reposts doesnt make sense of how much she ghosts and all the other things. Is there any way i can find out if she is talking about someone else?

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But she doesnt follow the guy i suspect on tiktok, only her ex and i know that they dont have anything

worthy whale
# keen portal I’ve waited a couple of days, she is still dry texting me and ghosting me, i ask...

At this time. leave her alone completely. Stop guessing about what her reasons are, and what she might or not be doing. You have no control over her feelings, her story or her decisions. Focus on yourself, friends, gaming, sports etc. If wants to, she will reach out. Stop guessing about "is her anxiety doing this, what is doing that etc)
The more thoughts you put into this, the more you are torturing yourself

keen portal
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Just found out she is arguing with someone she loves, i feel so stupid after asking her about so much stuff

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I feel so dumb

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I atleast know what she’s dealing with now i said to her that im here for her and everything so now i can finally stop thinking about it so much

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And leave her alone

worthy whale