#I want to pursue a relationship but idk how to
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Do you want to inscrease how many social activities you engage in so that you can meet someone? Do you want to work on your ability to relate to others? Do you want a specific relationship?
A good start could be some of the dating servers on discord. They allow you to practice romantic interactions, in a "behind the screen" environment. They are generally made so you can post and say a little about yourself, you can also contact others on their posts. They are generally also a very good place to make friends. This can allow you take the first "baby steps" in regards to interacting with whatever sex is preference. Remember to take baby steps and not "rush it". Start by reading posts, familiarise you with the dating environment, and reach a point where you feel comfortable
But it depends on your age, you have to be 18+
My main issue is mainly in person
like how to communicate in a certain manner to grab someones attention
ahhh ok i get it. You can contact me in Dm, and we can talk more about it
Is it alright if we talk here?
ofc ๐ Ill get back to you tomorrow
Sure thing
Every dance of pursuit is unique. Relate with the person in whatever way feels right to you. The more you let your light shine, the better. If you want to be shy, be shy. Find a way to communicate what you need to say. If that is "I like you," then pass that along in whatever way you think is best. Maybe it's through flirty movements, a note, or words. There are so many different ways to tell someone that you like them just like there are so many different ways to recieve being liked. Find the way that you want to tell this person, and, when you're ready, tell them.
Thats actually the best piece of advice a have ever gotten. It makes me feel like i can still be myself and pursue a relationship/friendship
thank you ever so much