#I leave people

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candid timber
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Yes, it's called being an avoidant. It's great you realize it, but you gotta work on it via therapy.

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It's your inner child that needs to heal 😄

winter prawn
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It's more than just that, I've had so many times where I should've died and didn't care. Sounds so emo lmao

candid timber
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Yes, you are in bad need of therapy

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Avoidants seek deep connections, but once they get too close, your defense mechanism is to cut people out

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It's called a push-pull dynamic

winter prawn
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But I don't do that to my mom or animals

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I care about my animals the most I ran back into the house to save them. I even carried out the birdcage

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So why don't I leave them too

candid timber
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yeah my ex was an giga avoidant and she also has a crazy deep bond to her mother

winter prawn
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I have three brothers

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Would it be emo if I said I feel comfortable being sad

candid timber
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i think thats normal

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but you gotta make sure u think about where u want to go in life

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i also am really happy with being sad

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but thats also at the same time bveing lazy

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because moving on takes more work than being just sad

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one takes action, one doesnt