#The love of my life left me, she thinks I cheated, everything was perfect, now she’s just gone.

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hollow ether
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I’m so alone, and she’s so close by, I love her..

calm relic
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sometimes people have past trauma that they can't resolve

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and its not your fault you couldn't help them resolve the trauma as much as you reassured her

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cry and grieve my brother

torpid fog
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@hollow ether

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Cant you communicate with her and tell her you didnt cheat

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And explain the situation

hollow ether
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Shes cut contact off completely

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I havent seen her since that day

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or heard from her

calm relic
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well, she kind of did you a favor if you asked me

sonic perch
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I loved one girl but shes left so know i have another one, dont be sad🙏✨

hollow ether
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I miss her so much, I’m fighting demons to not text her

sonic perch
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Wait

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Does she have another guy?

sonic perch
calm relic
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gotta tell yourself that your strong!!

amber current
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"Hey @hollow ether , I know things are tough right now, but please remember that you are incredibly strong and capable. Even when it feels hard, you're not alone in this. I'm here for you, always, and I believe in your ability to get through this. Take things one step at a time, and know that brighter days are ahead. and im wiling to be a friend if you need it

hollow ether
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As far as I know

hollow ether
hollow ether
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Even if I somehow managed to get into contact with her she’s probably decided she’s not interested in me anymore because she see’s liking Instagram photos as cheating, I should’ve told her before hand, it really feels like my fault

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She’s broken up with me many times before, but the other times she never blocked me or told her family, or anything like that, this time she cut off every connection completely

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I miss her so much, my whole relationship ended in the span of an hour out of nowhere

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She saw my likes and shares, and I don’t understand because she also liked and shared pictures of other men to her friends and told me about some of it

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Maybe it’s because I didn’t really tell her, idk if out of shame or guilt or both but I messed up, and I have no excuses

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But people keep saying it wasn’t cheating since I never contacted anyone nor did I have any attachment to any pictures or anything of that type

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I just miss her so much, she knew me, she loved me, she was willing to fight for me, until she wasn’t

calm relic
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there shouldn't be any guilt in liking instagram posts, sounds like your ex was trying to be extra possessive.

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texting someone with a context that you know would get you in trouble, acting flirty to people

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that's cheating

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but again liking photos? that's just psychotic

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I know your mind right now is I did wrong, it's always like that on the first week. but let me reassure you that it's not your fault whatsoever

hollow ether
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You’re right I do feel that way, and she told me that she can’t love someone who lusts over other women, and I knew she was possessive from the start because I liked that and I should’ve seen that coming perhaps..

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I was getting ready to propose..

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I saw her as the only one for me and I knew I could live my life with her

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At least I thought I knew

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I’ll try my best to reassure my guilt like you have, but at the end of the day I still lost the love of my life because I never told her something I should’ve, it was so easily avoidable

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And now it’s too late

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Everything was so amazing with her, she was my better half

calm relic
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and I can relate with the better half part, but now it's time to develop that better half by yourself

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you need to work on your worst half if you get what I mean here

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it sucks that you were planning on proposing too

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but i feel as if maybe it was a blessing

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anyways, no amount of words here in the current state that your in would convince you that it's not your fault and I totally understand that because I was there before, but time heals and space allows your vision to clear up again

hollow ether
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Actually your words are helping me a lot right now, if it wasn’t for your words and my friends I probably would’ve been trying to text her and trying to reconnect with her

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I just miss everything I did with her and been through with her

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I was so certain and comfortable and happy with her

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We had road trips, amazing memories, similar humor, and she knew me better than anyone else

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I loved her unconditionally

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And she told me the same

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But a lot of times her words didn’t align with her actions

torpid fog
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Move on dawg

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Maybe she is not the one

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For you

hollow ether
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What if she was?

calm relic
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there will always be a special one in your mind, no matter what

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maybe she was but she ran away

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whats done is done now

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be appreciative that you were able to experience what you did because it takes a special group of people to be able to and other envy your experiences

hollow ether
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I wanted all my amazing experiences to be with her

calm relic
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I did too, but they didn't want them

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and i loved them so much that I let them go

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let them go too, if they loved you as much as you thought they did they will realize thier mistake

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but if they don't then why stick around

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why stick around for someone who didn't give a f about you

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or doesn't right now at least

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it still taking me time to come to terms but everyday is progress

hollow ether
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Thank you for those words man

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That actually helps a lot to read

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But you’re right we need to move on, despite the ups and downs

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I will let her go

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I won’t stick around for someone who doesn’t give a f about me

sonic perch
hollow ether
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I was liking and sharing too pics of other women, which I thought was fine since she did the same with men pics

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Plus I never contacted anyone and never had any emotional or physical connection with anyone outside of our relationship

sonic perch
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And i think u should say that she is the best woman for u

hollow ether
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Oh trust me I’ve tried that already, especially all the other times she’s broken up with me before, I try my best to make her feel as special as I see her, that she is perfect and amazing and gorgeous things I say to her almost daily and she loved that

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But she cut me off completely

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Told me to go to hell and I haven’t heard from her since

sonic perch
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Did u try to say that this woman that u watched is bullsh

sonic perch
hollow ether
hollow ether
# sonic perch .???

Yeah she told me to go to hell and cut me off and I haven’t been in contact with her since

sonic perch
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Im russian idk eng

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Wait a min

sonic perch
hollow ether
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But she was to upset to care

sonic perch
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Uh i have same feelings like 4 years ago

hollow ether
sonic perch
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she appeared in my dreams

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I have another one

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U want start new relationships or bring back old ones

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?

sonic perch
hollow ether
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I do want to move on

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I’d rather have someone who is more mature

sonic perch
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Ur 20+ so u can use badoo and stuff like that

hollow ether
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I’d rather not use online dating sites if I don’t have to but at this rate I might 😭

calm relic
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nah not worth it

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heal firs

amber current
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@hollow ether you doing any better?

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if not you can dm me

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we can talk for a bit

hollow ether
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Yes we can DM

hollow ether
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I need major help rn, debating texting her

calm relic
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don't brother

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your going to choose to not text her

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you dont need her

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she knows you can and she's expecting you on your knees but you need to stand on your feet and walk away

hollow ether
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I’m fighting crazy strong demons to not call and text her

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World feels like it’s ending internally

sonic perch
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Why u dont call her if its ur love of ur life?

hollow ether
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I’ve tried

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And I’ve failed

quaint crane
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HE IS SO FREAKING CLOSE TO ME AND IM TO SCARED TO SAY ANYTHING

sonic perch
hollow ether
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No response still, I feel dead inside

cerulean remnant
# hollow ether No response still, I feel dead inside

If it wasn’t meant to be, it wasn’t meant to be. I know you might hear it a lot but it’s true. Let life carry you on. Don’t get left behind hanging onto something that doesn’t exist. Let life do its thing, and if it was meant to be she will come back naturally, if it wasn’t meant to be, a new girl will find you. Just be patient. Life holds a good future for you, trust in that future.

hollow ether
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I wish I could just not care

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But i cant

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she was special

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everything to me and now im sitting here depressed

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not as bad as before tho

cerulean remnant
cerulean remnant
cerulean remnant
cerulean remnant
# hollow ether everything to me and now im sitting here depressed

Look, you lose things or people in life, but sometimes it is for the better. I don’t know too much about you, but I know that there are a lot of people who care about you and love you. Maybe visit some family hangout with friends. They will help remind you that without her, you are still the same loved person you were before.

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Don’t feel empty without her.

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Feel full with the memories you made.

hollow ether
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I gave her everything

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I've been hoping so much for that one notification on my phone from her this whole time

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I feel like thats not okay

cerulean remnant
# hollow ether I gave her everything

I poured all my love and effort and attention into my ex. She never returned it. I tried to just move on and eventually I did, and developed a crush on someone else.

cerulean remnant
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It’s ok to miss someone.

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Trust me.

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It’s normal.

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Just know that everything will be ok. It all happens for a reason. Maybe she left you so you might meet someone you might love more.

hollow ether
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she just texted me>>

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...

cerulean remnant
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If you don’t mind me asking.

hollow ether
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that shes hurt

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and that even if she can forgiuve me her perception of me will be forever changed

cerulean remnant
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Oh.

hollow ether
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its going bad

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idk what to do

cerulean remnant
# hollow ether idk what to do

Let life continue. Don’t get stuck trying to solve this. Just go on with life. It will only get better if you let go, trust me.

hollow ether
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I wish that could be promised

torpid fog
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If she didnt believe you

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Then she never loved you

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True love doesnt fail

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If it fails then it was never true love

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Dont shed tears for someone that doesnt deserve it

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The fact you care so much proves you’re a wonderful person

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Learn to love and seek joy from yourself before you ever seek it from another

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@hollow ether

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Stay positive

bitter temple
calm relic
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@hollow ether look, she needs time away from you. she's hurt and you constantly reaching out shows her that you don't listen. as a guy I understand that were just trying to fix things, but to her she just sees you as annoying and will bush her back more

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leave the conversation be and start moving on

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im sorry man

torpid fog
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@hollow ether how are you doing now

hollow ether
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Much worse

torpid fog
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😦

calm relic
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hoping your doing well right now

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moving on is painful and walking forwards can be like trying to balance yourself on a slack line sometimes

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there are points where your going to be fine and other times where you feel like your tilting way too much towards the endless drop

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it's ok to feel like your going to fall, but you must focus and keep your balance brother

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the balance makes you better and most importantly alive

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persevere

hollow ether
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Update: I feel like I did cheat because I didn't tell her what I was doing, because we were suppose to trust each other, tell each other everything is trust, I thought I was doing a little better, then I remembered her touch, her laugh, her voice, I feel immeasurable guilt, she's texted me since then, said she didn't want to call became she didn't want to say something she regret but basically she said that she is mourning me and that her whole world has collapsed, that she thought she was enough, she said that she holds so much bitterness and pain, but then underneath that so much love, I responded and tried to justify it as p*** and that I had no connection to it but it didn't matter because it still broke our trust, she said if she forgave me she still wouldn't be able to see me the same again, I'm heartbroken, I told her I was ashamed and she was sorry for not being able to handle it on her own, she told me to leave the convo where it was and that she would talk to me later, normally that would help but not this time, l've come to the realization after so many "How to get your ex back" videos that she will text me back when she's ready to either tell me we can try again or it will be time for me to move on from her because she wouldn't be able to see me the same, I am so anxious, afraid, broken, my soul is wounded, I love this girl to death and told her that she is the love of my life... she said maybe... she use to tell me the same back..

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I’m losing my mind

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Again

calm relic
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brother you are spiraling, I think its about time to seek therapy :(