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vale kestrel Dec 2, 2024, 6:00 PM

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i don't think you do anything wrong u are scared and overthink about stuff because he making it

Idk when i was with my ex i wouldn't be able not to text her more then a hour or two because i miss her

I think you should give less and less effort about someone who don't want to be around you if he doesn't care and don't feel your kindness missing just move on

You can't change person if u giving your best and he is ungrateful you need to move one

Someone would kill to be with a person who truly loves

quick kayak Dec 2, 2024, 9:37 PM

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vale kestrel i don't think you do anything wrong u are scared and overthink about stuff becau...

oh

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its just hard

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im always scared bc its our 4th time being tg

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nd he always breaks up w me

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i also fid it hard to not care

vale kestrel Dec 2, 2024, 9:39 PM

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do you making him jealous by any chance?

quick kayak Dec 2, 2024, 9:47 PM

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wdym??

vale kestrel Dec 2, 2024, 9:49 PM

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quick kayak wdym??

i mean do you know reason why is he so mad at you to the point he wants to break up with you?

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maybe i should re-read it first

quick kayak Dec 2, 2024, 9:50 PM

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vale kestrel i mean do you know reason why is he so mad at you to the point he wants to break...

i honestly dont knnow

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we never taalk about it

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he dmed me jsutt nww

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he pinged me

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then siaid

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duhh

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nvm

vale kestrel Dec 2, 2024, 9:50 PM

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heh

quick kayak Dec 2, 2024, 9:50 PM

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uhh**

vale kestrel Dec 2, 2024, 9:50 PM

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sorry to hear that

quick kayak Dec 2, 2024, 9:50 PM

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then in his status he put um

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'freaks out'

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then

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he put

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'dni unless -- gc'

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so i asked if he was ok and he said umm

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'yeah!..'

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i think thats sarcasmm

vale kestrel Dec 2, 2024, 9:51 PM

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oh

quick kayak Dec 2, 2024, 9:51 PM

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o iyhink we might break up

vale kestrel Dec 2, 2024, 9:51 PM

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tell him something like

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i feel really bad and i want to solve our problems

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i don't want to make you feel bad about something i do

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and i want to know what did i do so i can try and improve myself

quick kayak Dec 2, 2024, 9:52 PM

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im nto good at talking about that stuff

vale kestrel Dec 2, 2024, 9:52 PM

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yeah but you should say that

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i mean its nothing that can offended him right

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even better you will help your realationships to grow

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if he is angry because you're trying your best

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do you really need that person?

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you love him so much

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but think about it

quick kayak Dec 2, 2024, 9:54 PM

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yeaah

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i just now i dont knowhw to ebcuase the situarion has gotten worse

vale kestrel Dec 2, 2024, 9:55 PM

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yeah i understand fear of losing someone

quick kayak Dec 2, 2024, 9:56 PM

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i just feel like theres no point

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atp

vale kestrel Dec 2, 2024, 9:56 PM

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but you need to repear your realationships or this is over

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you drinking poison and you will get knife in the back at the end

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if u think that

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at least try

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do your best

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and if he or you leave realationships

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you will know you didn't do anything wrong

quick kayak Dec 2, 2024, 9:57 PM

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hmm okay

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how do i start

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like

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yk

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the convo

vale kestrel Dec 2, 2024, 9:58 PM

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i mean i think its good what i text you earlier

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if u don't think so we can try something else

vale kestrel Dec 2, 2024, 9:59 PM

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vale kestrel yeah but you should say that

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@quick kayak did u do something?

quick kayak Dec 2, 2024, 10:07 PM

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vale kestrel <@1211338741113946124> did u do something?

nah, im still scared.

vale kestrel Dec 2, 2024, 10:07 PM

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hahaha take your time

quick kayak Dec 2, 2024, 10:07 PM

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ill wait for him to not put dni in his status anymore

vale kestrel Dec 2, 2024, 10:07 PM

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i can understand you

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oh is that so

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but i don't know

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you're scared of him

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its not a good sign

quick kayak Dec 2, 2024, 10:10 PM

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sigh

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idk man

vale kestrel Dec 2, 2024, 10:12 PM

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heh

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how are you feeling now?

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and do you think someone who loves you would like how you feel

quick kayak Dec 2, 2024, 10:15 PM

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vale kestrel and do you think someone who loves you would like how you feel

i dont think htey would

quick kayak Dec 2, 2024, 10:15 PM

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vale kestrel how are you feeling now?

anxious

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ive already had a panic attack

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i think

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i felt all cold and chattery tremblgn and stuff

vale kestrel Dec 2, 2024, 10:18 PM

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you should told him that

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and say that i want to know what's making him upset that much

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so u can try and fix it

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but really

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if he gets upset because of that

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you shouldn't care about him at all

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but you will of course

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so you need to do something that will make you less and less attached to him

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so it would be less painful for you

quick kayak Dec 2, 2024, 10:20 PM

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ive never spoken to him about it the problem is ive been friends w him and ik what he doesnt like

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in relationships aswell

vale kestrel Dec 2, 2024, 10:21 PM

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u should ask him what make him upset last time

quick kayak Dec 2, 2024, 10:21 PM

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he doesnt like i twhen people are jealous of him and his friends

quick kayak Dec 2, 2024, 10:21 PM

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vale kestrel u should ask him what make him upset last time

no but i know what makes him upset/ annoyed

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i was like his relationship mentor or smt

vale kestrel Dec 2, 2024, 10:21 PM

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if my girlfriend is jealous i would love that that's a sign of someone who truly loves me

vale kestrel Dec 2, 2024, 10:22 PM

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quick kayak no but i know what makes him upset/ annoyed

but what make him angry last time

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your overreacting?

quick kayak Dec 2, 2024, 10:22 PM

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vale kestrel but what make him angry last time

the fact that his ex felt jealous of all his friends

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the difference between me and his ex was

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his ex was more open.

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very open

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and

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my bf found that weird.

vale kestrel Dec 2, 2024, 10:23 PM

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but why is he mad at you then

quick kayak Dec 2, 2024, 10:24 PM

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i dont know.

vale kestrel Dec 2, 2024, 10:24 PM

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then you should ask him

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and tell him how are you feeling

quick kayak Dec 2, 2024, 10:24 PM

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but what if he says 'im not mad'

vale kestrel Dec 2, 2024, 10:24 PM

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you can't be scared of him

quick kayak Dec 2, 2024, 10:24 PM

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awkwardness

vale kestrel Dec 2, 2024, 10:25 PM

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then just tell him how are you feeling

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because of his actions

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and let him know so he can try not to do it again

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for realationships takes 2

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you know

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you can't do all by yourself

quick kayak Dec 2, 2024, 10:26 PM

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vale kestrel you can't be scared of him

im scared of msking i t awkward then pushing him away

quick kayak Dec 2, 2024, 10:26 PM

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vale kestrel you can't do all by yourself

true

vale kestrel Dec 2, 2024, 10:27 PM

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but you can't be akward in realationship

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i was telling everything to my ex and it was never akward

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but because she was toxic as hell we got in fight

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that's something else

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but how much toxic she was i was telling her everything

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and you should too

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u need to feel comfortable and safe around boyfriend

quick kayak Dec 2, 2024, 10:35 PM

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true

strong jackal Dec 2, 2024, 10:54 PM

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girl i've been in the same relationship 😭

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ik its hard but what you gotta do is actually communicate preferably on call or in person so u really understand what he's saying

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its not gonna work out if you and him keep ignoring problems, same thing happened to me last time and it was one of the worst break ups for me

quick kayak Dec 3, 2024, 5:03 PM

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sigh

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i see

vale kestrel Dec 3, 2024, 7:41 PM

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quick kayak i see

did something happen?

quick kayak Dec 3, 2024, 8:59 PM

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vale kestrel did something happen?

yeah

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