#Confused + Sexual harassment

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tawdry ravine
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I live in a homophobic community but I want to change my feelings towards the lgbt community yet I still have homophobic thoughts. With this I had a friend who acted gay towards me with his moves and weird touching I felt weird and grew more aggressive towards the lgbtq community

half otter
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As a member, I can say at one point in the early 2000’s I had homophobic thoughts as I grew up in a time where as it wasn’t as accepted as it was now

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I can say, it will take time to change your thoughts

tawdry ravine
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How and when?

half otter
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That’s what helps the most in the long run

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It’s a good starting point

tawdry ravine
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okay

half otter
# tawdry ravine okay

I can say this, while what your “friend” did is not okay, know that they do not represent the entire community

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I’m Twister btw. It’s nice to meet you

tawdry ravine
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Thanks to meet u too I am casper

half otter
tawdry ravine
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Thanks

half otter
# tawdry ravine Thanks

You’re welcome. Best way to look at things like this is to judge an individual based on how they treat others. Like it doesn’t matter if they’re gay, straight, white, black, if they’re a good person that’s what matters

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That’s how I overcame mine

tawdry ravine
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Will do

half otter
# tawdry ravine Will do

Alright, you take care Casper. If you need any more help, feel free to ping me. I’ll try to respond

flat yarrow
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One thing I want to add: You wanting change is a great first step to becoming more friendly towards the LGBTQ+ community

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It's just like us furries tbh

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There are some weird and gross ones that like doing not ok things that cause people to see the entire community as gross and disgusting and wanting to harm kids

vernal igloo
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Maybe you could first try accepting the rest of the community that doesn't trigger it, like you can start with AAA batteries (agender aromantic asexuals) and especially online like here on discord. Like I'm an afab non-binary aroace kid. I'm not scary, I promise : )

half otter
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Aromantic lol

vernal igloo