I like a girl(classmate)

[reef citrus]

I’m wondering what should I do. It’s already been 1 year since she is my classmate

I really need help

[upper meteor]

just go up to her

who cares what others may think

[reef citrus]

Welp

[timid knoll]

i think you need to actually find a way to reach out, maybe replying to her story with something casual would be a start and see how things go from there

[upper meteor]

i don’t back when i was your age i’d just go up to them

[reef citrus]

I really should think about my life choices

[upper meteor]

was easy tho since a lot of them were crushing on me

[reef citrus]

She is very quiet honestly

[reef citrus]

💀

Hell nah

Bro is gigacjad or smth

[upper meteor]

and i’m a privileged white boy

[reef citrus]

Dang

[reef citrus]

She said Japanese men are ugly once

I’m japanese

[upper meteor]

maybe consider excelling at a sport

[upper meteor]

💀

[reef citrus]

She always very toxic

Even the friends she has

Is also

They say random toxic shit to each other for fun

[upper meteor]

maybe she just wants to annoy you?

[reef citrus]

I was like wtf

[reef citrus]

Maybe

She got hurt once

I asked her if she was okay

[upper meteor]

that could be a sign

tho

[reef citrus]

She said yes and then end of story 💀

[upper meteor]

that’s normal

[reef citrus]

Hmm

[reef citrus]

Toxic shit normal 💀

[upper meteor]

i guess she isn’t that interested in you

[reef citrus]

I guess so

She has a friend which is a boy

[upper meteor]

that’s probably jokingly

[reef citrus]

She’s really close to him

But he is gay*

[upper meteor]

has he ever had a girl

[reef citrus]

Like how he talks is gay

[upper meteor]

knew it

[reef citrus]

He is quite popular with girls

No shot cause he sounds like a girl

💀

[timid knoll]

yeah, that's just the thing about crushes, sometimes before we even can consider like having delusions about dating them we kinda need to weigh them as a person

[reef citrus]

Yeah honestly

[timid knoll]

like yeah thier pretty but looks can only take you so far

[upper meteor]

honestly just go for a girl and yeah

[timid knoll]

if they aren't an enjoyable person to be around then they are just pretty

[reef citrus]

Yeah

[timid knoll]

visually*

[reef citrus]

Don’t judge a book by its cover

[upper meteor]

just try the girl who told you that your crush is not interested in you

[reef citrus]

Read its contents

[timid knoll]

exactly, you want someone who loves you gor who you are

[upper meteor]

she likes you

[reef citrus]

Nope

She alr has a boyfriend

[upper meteor]

she chopped?

[timid knoll]

not someone who your putting on a pedestal because of looks

[upper meteor]

he chopped?

[reef citrus]

I’m like chasing her down tbh

[reef citrus]

Chopped meaning

[upper meteor]

ugly

[reef citrus]

He ugly idk

She ugly idk

Tbh

She alr has a boyfriend

[upper meteor]

she your type?

[reef citrus]

But I don’t like her either way

[reef citrus]

No

But like idk man

Relationships are so hard

[upper meteor]

if you could steal his girl it would higher your chances with other girls

tho

[reef citrus]

Really?

[timid knoll]

yeah you don't wanna chase

needs to be a mutal feeling of chasing each other

[reef citrus]

I have couple of friends which are girls though

[upper meteor]

yeah but not if she is mega ugly

[timid knoll]

not just you man

some1s canadian

[reef citrus]

Someone’s Canadian 🍁

[timid knoll]

ain't that easy to get into a relationship though

and it's not good to rush one either

[reef citrus]

But on insta she followed me first lol

[upper meteor]

it’s hard if you seek for a perfect one

[reef citrus]

The girl which I like

[upper meteor]

or if you’re chopped

[timid knoll]

isn't that the point of dating in the first place?

[reef citrus]

I didn’t even bother following her cause I was worried she might suspect I like her

[upper meteor]

nah it’s to get money and your needs

[reef citrus]

WTF

Just go get a PHd or smth and get the money 💀

[upper meteor]

love being a need

[reef citrus]

💀

[upper meteor]

love is easier tho

[reef citrus]

True

Slowly

[reef citrus]

Love is easier skull

I’m friendly tbh but like she is toxic

My friend which is a girl said we ain’t good match

Cause she is all
Chaotic

While I’m neat and tidy and peaceful

[upper meteor]

you should just get with your friend

or any girl

[timid knoll]

i don't even think you should get with anyone

[upper meteor]

or guy

[timid knoll]

like

your still super young

[reef citrus]

Depressing 😔

[reef citrus]

True

13

[timid knoll]

not in that way

just the pool is small right now

[upper meteor]

to practice yk

[reef citrus]

And my class alr got 6 couples

💀

[upper meteor]

for better relationships

[timid knoll]

what are you practicing

[mental shell]

bruh are u tripping?

[reef citrus]

My class insane tbh 6 couples

[timid knoll]

lmfao

[upper meteor]

in the future

[mental shell]

this is a place for lonely losers

[timid knoll]

nah

[mental shell]

its concerning

6 couples woah

[reef citrus]

Loser 💀

[mental shell]

jesus christ

[timid knoll]

it's not for lonely losers

[reef citrus]

Im a loser 😭

[upper meteor]

on how many people?

[timid knoll]

some have actual relationships lmao

[reef citrus]

2 people per couple

That’s why it’s called a couple

[mental shell]

says the guy who has nothign to do

but reply to guy havign girl trouble

[reef citrus]

I mean it’s insane 1 year and alr got 6 couples

[mental shell]

ye totally not insane

[upper meteor]

i mean how many people are in your class

💀

[timid knoll]

??

[mental shell]

bruh do u live in the ice age

[reef citrus]

I’m having girl trouble 😭

[reef citrus]

34

[mental shell]

we get it

[timid knoll]

yo chill out

[mental shell]

kk sorry

[timid knoll]

let's recap

[mental shell]

chill

ye recap pls

[reef citrus]

Recap!time

[mental shell]

ye

[reef citrus]

Okay back to the point

What should I do now

[mental shell]

ye

[timid knoll]

don't think you should date rn, im glad you recognize girl is pretty but she isn't good for you

[upper meteor]

[mental shell]

tbh

hard to get

[timid knoll]

toxicity ain't for you

[mental shell]

bruh u really tripping

wtf is ur age?

[upper meteor]

tripping

[mental shell]

if ur over 20

[reef citrus]

Thanks

[mental shell]

its over

[timid knoll]

im 19 big dog

[reef citrus]

💀

[upper meteor]

he 13

[timid knoll]

hes 13

[upper meteor]

or some

[mental shell]

uh ye

19 and 13

sheesh

am i the only one concerned abt this

[timid knoll]

??

[reef citrus]

What the

[mental shell]

ur 19 and u have nothign better to do

[reef citrus]

We ain’t dating each other

💀

[mental shell]

ik

[upper meteor]

13 is lowkey a valid time to have a girl

[timid knoll]

brother I'm just trying to help

[upper meteor]

or game

[mental shell]

but hes giving u romantic advice

[timid knoll]

dunno what's your problem is

[mental shell]

ik jesus christ guys

i dont have any problems chill

[reef citrus]

19 I’ll be in military by then

[mental shell]

im just concerned

[reef citrus]

💀

[mental shell]

and having fun

[timid knoll]

litteraly you have no input in the convo I dunno why your here

[mental shell]

pls dont tell her that

[upper meteor]

then have the most fun you can have till then

[mental shell]

id leave u if i was her too

[reef citrus]

National service

[upper meteor]

and don’t be all focused on that

[reef citrus]

I can’t reject

[mental shell]

heheh

[reef citrus]

It’s government choice

Military or jail

[upper meteor]

where you from?

[mental shell]

sheesh ur a man

[reef citrus]

Singapore

[upper meteor]

💀

[mental shell]

i like this guy

[reef citrus]

Singapore and Korea got national service

[mental shell]

straight to the point

[reef citrus]

I can’t reject the offer

It’s either 2 years in jail or 2 years in army

Change country to avoid army

When you comeback they arrest and put you in jail

Back to the point please guys

[mental shell]

okay chill bruh

[reef citrus]

So should I really date someone or nope

[upper meteor]

to summarize:
just ask her out
be slick with it
just remember she’s just a human being
and think of her as one of your homies don’t stress it

[mental shell]

ye but ur not gonna get anything

[mental shell]

bruh how old are u

[reef citrus]

What the

[mental shell]

not you

ur fine

chill

[reef citrus]

Ask her out immediately 💀

[mental shell]

bruh are u man or not

[upper meteor]

18

[mental shell]

better than the last one

not bad

continue

[reef citrus]

Bro asking her out immediately is like wtf

She gonna say wtf too

[mental shell]

ye u stupid or smth

play hard to get

be a man

[upper meteor]

💀

[mental shell]

going to the army and doing all this

[timid knoll]

??

[reef citrus]

??

[mental shell]

what are u gonna tell the other soldiers

[reef citrus]

I got 5 years left

[upper meteor]

he’s not huzz

[timid knoll]

neon is your just gonna put people down what's the damn point

*neo

[reef citrus]

I’m gonna be put down like a damn dog?!

[mental shell]

okay ill play the game

im no worse than u guys

lonely on a sunday night

[reef citrus]

Same

Yall got girlfriends

?

I got none

[mental shell]

nah im sigma

i had tho

[reef citrus]

Only friends that are girls

[mental shell]

we dated for 2 years

[timid knoll]

same boat

[mental shell]

there is no such thing

[reef citrus]

I got 7 girls that are friends

[upper meteor]

just get in her circles or talk to her look if she’s interested

[timid knoll]

there is

[mental shell]

bruh are u gay

just asking

[reef citrus]

No

[mental shell]

kk

[reef citrus]

I’m straight Seroeuly

[mental shell]

kk do u play any sports

[reef citrus]

I got more homies than girls

[upper meteor]

nothing serious right now

[mental shell]

?

[reef citrus]

I got 16 bomies

Homies

[mental shell]

kk nvm ur not gay i get it

chill

do u play any sports

[reef citrus]

No

[mental shell]

are u smart?

[upper meteor]

…

[reef citrus]

Yes

[mental shell]

ur asian no?

[reef citrus]

I am Asian

Yes

Half Japanese

[upper meteor]

top of the class?

[reef citrus]

Half Singapore’s

[mental shell]

tf are ur parents gonna do when they find out

[upper meteor]

do you look indian?

[mental shell]

bruh ban this guy

[reef citrus]

Nope got a girl smart we than me

[timid knoll]

jesus christ what are these questions

[upper meteor]

?

[mental shell]

ye nvm i like this guy now

[reef citrus]

I am smart yes

[mental shell]

are u high

where u from

[reef citrus]

That’s why I’m planning to become an engineer

[mental shell]

wdym by do u look indian

[reef citrus]

In the future

[mental shell]

do u want his pic or something

im telling u

[reef citrus]

Bro I literally said I’m Japanese

WTF

How do I like Indian

[mental shell]

half of these guys giving u advice are gay

[upper meteor]

nah bro making it weird

[reef citrus]

Did I paint myself black

[mental shell]

bruh i was replying to the guy who asked if u looked india

[reef citrus]

Am I charcoal

[reef citrus]

I know

[mental shell]

i didnt call u indian fool

[reef citrus]

It’s user

[upper meteor]

idk

[reef citrus]

I’m talking to him not you 💀

[mental shell]

where u from user?

[reef citrus]

But I need smth to reply to

[reef citrus]

He from djsiskeisnisje

[mental shell]

then whyd u reply to my message

[reef citrus]

Or smth

[mental shell]

kk makes sense

[upper meteor]

germany

[reef citrus]

Closest message

[mental shell]

ye shit dont mess with him

hes a man

[reef citrus]

Oktober fest just ended right

[mental shell]

nnn also jsut ended

go on

[upper meteor]

…

[reef citrus]

The beer festival

Where you hold a beer with one hand

Up high

[timid knoll]

that's in bavaria

[mental shell]

wtf is this guy yapping

[reef citrus]

Oh fxck

[timid knoll]

dw about it

[mental shell]

it happens

hmred where u from??

[timid knoll]

it's in Germany but a certain region

im American why?

[mental shell]

no reason

[reef citrus]

American like a true coke fan

Jkjk

[mental shell]

he might be the gay guy

[reef citrus]

I love America too tbh

[mental shell]

german guy no way

[reef citrus]

Did German guy disappear like air

[timid knoll]

i mean it's not gay to have female friends that your platonically friends with

[mental shell]

in america

[reef citrus]

They are extroverts

All of them

[timid knoll]

then you must not talk to alot of qomen

*women

[reef citrus]

If I have friends that are girls that are introverts

Then possibly im gay

Yes

[mental shell]

ye the guy who's dated three girls

how about u\

i was sigma before that

[reef citrus]

None

[mental shell]

but figured i like ben shapira more than adrew tate so i changed

[reef citrus]

I dated NONW 😭

[timid knoll]

why are we using girls we dated as a social ranking dog

[mental shell]

i was talkign abt me but okay

[mental shell]

no im just saying that i have talked to girls

[reef citrus]

💀

[mental shell]

ur 18

hows senior year?

[reef citrus]

We going off topic like a train without rails

[mental shell]

this lonely

[reef citrus]

Everyone her lonely

[mental shell]

u should go to the writing section of this server

[reef citrus]

Too happy

[mental shell]

full disclosure its worse

[reef citrus]

Yappy

[mental shell]

i agree

[reef citrus]

At least we have each a 1 message gap

Or else it’ll be yap or smth

[timid knoll]

look im just gonna drop that you should be friends to see, but if you expressed that she's kind of toxic then maybe just leave her be

[reef citrus]

Toxic in what way?

Tbh that’s the question

[timid knoll]

you said that she doesn't like Japanese people

[reef citrus]

Does she do it for fun

[reef citrus]

She said Japanese people ugly

[timid knoll]

same thing

[reef citrus]

I’m half Japanese

She insults people like idk tbh

[timid knoll]

that's not healthy

[reef citrus]

Should I just leave her be

Hmm

She doesn’t show any interest in basically

Everyone

But idk why but she keeps looking back at me when I’m walking

Like some random shit

[mental shell]

bruh

[reef citrus]

Once I said to my homies i don’t want a girlfriend for godsake and she overheard

Then she turned for a split second and looked at me

Then looked back in front

IDK WHAT TO DO 😭

THIS HELLA DIDFICULT

DIFFICULT

It’s always should I or should I not

[upper meteor]

not all been with one
he was like really asocial so it was really easy to use him for money

[reef citrus]

💀

[mental shell]

bruh can i tell u something?

[reef citrus]

Sure

[mental shell]

if shes toxic

and u really want her

[reef citrus]

Just leave her be

[upper meteor]

just try it

[mental shell]

just for fun

not long term

[reef citrus]

Or should I not do it

[mental shell]

be toxic

for the sake of it

trust me

[reef citrus]

💀

[mental shell]

if she really is toxic

[upper meteor]

what’s the worst she could do?

[mental shell]

ye exactly

then do the same

[reef citrus]

Gossip spread rumours

If I ask her out

[upper meteor]

who cares?

[mental shell]

thats the best thing that could happen

[upper meteor]

spread some about her

[reef citrus]

Like one rumour spread so huge the person went for therapy afterwards

[mental shell]

it gives u an opportunity

[upper meteor]

💀

[mental shell]

bruh no way u guys going to the army

u guys soft as girls

[reef citrus]

I’m a girl ?!

[mental shell]

no

[reef citrus]

What the sigma

[mental shell]

i meant ur friend

or whatever

[reef citrus]

Oh

[mental shell]

the one person who went for therapy

anyways

[reef citrus]

Yeah

[mental shell]

dont talk in school

[reef citrus]

He was truanatized

[mental shell]

only text

[reef citrus]

Okay

[mental shell]

trust me

[upper meteor]

i remember once a girl asked me out and i rejected her so she threatened me with suicide

💀

[mental shell]

her birthday coming soon or something

[mental shell]

bruh wake up

[reef citrus]

I dan check on that

I can check

I got all my classmates birthdays

[mental shell]

this mfs getting death threats from girls now

[mental shell]

check

[upper meteor]

where are you going with that?

[mental shell]

trust

till hes gone

user

ur from germany right

[upper meteor]

👍

[mental shell]

and that randomdude guy is japanese

u guys should watch monster on netflix

crazy plt

[upper meteor]

yeah some like that

[mental shell]

nahi respect u man

u got the genes

russians on another level

but ye

respect man

[upper meteor]

im h. top guy

[mental shell]

u shouldve said u were german sooner

[mental shell]

sheesh

[reef citrus]

Nah her birthday passed

July 29

[mental shell]

kk

do u really like her

[reef citrus]

I mean I can’t judge a book by its cover

I do like her

[mental shell]

enough that u can tolerate her toxicity or whatever

so ur more on the personality side or the looks

?

[reef citrus]

I can tolerate anyone’s toxicity

[mental shell]

hehe now thats a man

[reef citrus]

Both

[upper meteor]

what type of toxic is she?

[mental shell]

but whats more

come on be honest

looks or personality

[reef citrus]

Toxic enough to spread random shit to kids of Roblox

[upper meteor]

like abusive gf toxic or insulting toxic?

[reef citrus]

Looks?

[mental shell]

abusive gf toxic is hot

[reef citrus]

Insulting toxic

[mental shell]

obv the other one

[upper meteor]

that’s okay

i used to be with one that was like that

[reef citrus]

💀 how was she

[mental shell]

nah u werent

[upper meteor]

it’s not as worse as you may think

[mental shell]

stop the cap

germans are sigmas

[reef citrus]

But fr

[mental shell]

kk sorry

[reef citrus]

If I ask her what her future career is

[mental shell]

personality or looks

[reef citrus]

And she says make up artist

I’m leaving her

[mental shell]

bruh u crazy

u want long term

[reef citrus]

Looks more

[reef citrus]

Short can be

[mental shell]

bruh u dumb

ye so dont ask such questions

is sex all u want

or just talkign to her?

[reef citrus]

I promise I won’t

[reef citrus]

I texted her before

She took photo of me once

[mental shell]

looks or personality

[reef citrus]

And I texted her please delete

[mental shell]

ok kid she likes u we get it

[reef citrus]

Whag

[reef citrus]

What?!

I don’t know if she likes me or not

[upper meteor]

normal tho she was really boring because she had no personality of her own

[reef citrus]

I seriously don’t

[mental shell]

looks

or personality

pick one

[reef citrus]

Oh did she try to fit into her friend or what

LOOKS FOR THE 10 time

💀

[mental shell]

come on ud date jennifer lopez

withouut knowing her

[reef citrus]

No

[upper meteor]

looks and money/status

[reef citrus]

That would be awkward as hell

[upper meteor]

yeah

[mental shell]

i love this guy

[reef citrus]

Money

[mental shell]

thats the most german thing to say

[mental shell]

u shut the hell up

first short term

[reef citrus]

A Porsche will be forever next to you

[mental shell]

then army

[upper meteor]

imagine the job opportunities

[mental shell]

and then all this money xrap

[reef citrus]

💀

Porsche will never leave its owner while a girl might leave you

[mental shell]

looks or personality/

[reef citrus]

So choose Porsche

[mental shell]

bruh ur not sigma

stfu

[reef citrus]

Looks

[mental shell]

kk

then go for it

perfect for short term alsp

make ur move

[reef citrus]

Nah it’ll be too fast

[upper meteor]

lone sigma wolf 🐺

[reef citrus]

She definitely gonna be like wtf

And say nope

[mental shell]

bruh who cares

[upper meteor]

are you chopped?

[mental shell]

no one does

she says no

u move on

[reef citrus]

Idk

[mental shell]

face all the rumour crap

and get some other girl

atleast ull move on

[reef citrus]

Fine

[mental shell]

do something brave for once in ur life

finally

rn

be a man

[upper meteor]

would you date yourself if you were gay or a girl?

[reef citrus]

Life is too short to be scared

[mental shell]

like the german guy

[reef citrus]

WTF

[mental shell]

bruh ur not german

nvm

this guy is gay

the germans are changing

[reef citrus]

Definitely

[mental shell]

sheesh

[reef citrus]

Germans are evolving to a new form

[mental shell]

hehehe ye

[reef citrus]

Japanese are raising their taxes to 55 %

[upper meteor]

do you find yourself attractive? i mean by that

[reef citrus]

Idk

In my opinion nah I can’t judge myself

[mental shell]

bruh ur actually gay

[reef citrus]

👍

[mental shell]

either he does find himself attractive or hes gonna lie

which one is it

[reef citrus]

Idk

[mental shell]

hehe

[upper meteor]

ask your girl friends

[mental shell]

bruh thats too weird

[reef citrus]

Yeah

[mental shell]

esp for the girl he likes

bruh ask her already

[upper meteor]

are they good friends or school friends ?

[mental shell]

u sent all this fior nothing

make it count

MAKE IT COUNT ALREADY

go and send a snip

not full convo

just confession

and make it nonchalant

like i have feelings for you

[upper meteor]

💀

💀💀💀💀

[reef citrus]

I can take as photo of my conversation with her

[mental shell]

dont pour ur heart out

[reef citrus]

Like no joke

[mental shell]

shes not the love of ur life

[reef citrus]

She might not be

[mental shell]

just confess alrewady

ik she isnt

thats i said dont be a baby

[upper meteor]

send

[reef citrus]

I send you photo of conversation

[mental shell]

have the fun u want

[reef citrus]

Not to German dude

Cause he strange as fxck sorry

[mental shell]

hgehehe ye i wouldnt trust him either

[reef citrus]

I’ll seriously be concerned

[mental shell]

ye i agree

hehehe

[upper meteor]

🤷‍♂️