#Touch deprived
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its sweet in some way
i think many of us crave physical touch like that
maybe ask your parents to cuddle you or other family members
ok i mean
going crazy isnt that normal yeah
😭
are you not close to them or
OHH
wow
are you like selective
like
do you have a few people that you actually dont mind having physical contact with
like hugging and stuff
oh wow my friend is the same
best friend
My bestfriend and cousin
try asking them to hug you more and stuff
it may not be the same as like in a romantic sense
but still
it might calm you down
aw im so sorry
then your best friend i guess??
try hugging pillows or like plushies
i used to always hug random objects in order to fall asleep
wdym
does what
hugs??
aww
yes
me too
bro they weird for starring
i mean
for real 😭😭
i mean
good material
and stuff
🤷🤷🤷
awwwww
thats so cute lmao
BRO
i mean
listen
maybe dont do it that much if they bother you
like
the people that stare and you
maybe just do more of that in private
it could be the back rubs that make others feel confused or something
no i know but you just dont have 100 pairs of eyes staring right at you you know
its not actually weird
some people just love physical touch more and are more comfortable than others
🤷
people will always judge
i see
thats very understandable
maybe try getting more comfortable doing that with your parents or siblinfs
the people you live with
Yk I'm rly neglectful when it comes to physical touch between my family, it just feels weird. Like I don't like being touched by my little sister and she's only 5, I just get so uncomfortable when it's them
i mean are you sure
since you want physical touch so bad
i see
i mean a lot of people have that
especially teenagers
its fine if you dont want to have physical touch with them
im just like you know telling you to maybe take it into consideration 🤷
you can be slow with it
Mhm, tysm but Idk it's js weird to me
I hope so 
i see
lmao 😭
thats totally fine you know
just maybe hug pillows or plushies i guess
and try to think about the urge less
you will eventually start to forget about it
ITS BEEN YEARS
BUT I HOPE I WILL
TY
yeah just try to distract yourself from those thoughts you know
happy to help ❤️
Mhm
People wanting to be touched is entirely normal, and not being touched is actually called being touch starved. Holding my GF's hand meant the literal world to me the first time we did it. I hadn't been touched by anyone, even like that, in years. That little act seems like such a tiny thing, yet it means everything to me. When she was the one who wanted to kiss me though, that meant so much more. You'll find someone who can fill your needs of physical intimacy, but you don't have to find it from just a lover. You can find it from friends or animals.
Yes exactly I need a cat, ive been asking my parents for a cat for years. For 6 years. And they're still saying no
They don't understand
They think I want one bc i think it's cute