I don’t want to sound so harsh about it but maybe he just wants to have you as a back up. Or maybe he wants to see if you want him back or not hence him sending random photos of himself in hopes you’ll hype him up. I just think that the fact he still responds but lags it already shows where you stand in his life. On top of that not even asking anything about you is crazy because how are you not curious to know how your ex has been without you…
#its so frustrating
cinder crag
untold python
I KNOW RIGHT...like bro cmon now, to make matters even worse im pretty sure hes got a girlfriend now? idk its all so confusing
cinder crag
Yeahhh I suggest your best option is to just drop him
It’s not as easy as it sounds but in the long run you’ll be so much more care free not having to worry if he still cares
Like the saying goes if he wanted to then he would
I don’t want you to drain yourself over some guy when you obviously deserve so much better
No one should ever have to question if someone still cares about you
cinder crag
Thank you LOL but seriously girl drop him
I’m in the process of dropping me ex of 4 years
And it hurts so bad
untold python
i dont know if i can ive already done it like twice before and it doesnt feel good 😭
maybe ill just stop messaging first
would that work?
cinder crag
Yesss
Just don’t message him
You don’t have to block them or anything
Or even remove them
Unless it’s easier for you
untold python
ill change his contact name to "dont message" just so that if i get close to doing it i can see it and stop lmao 😭
cinder crag
Then by all means do what you have to do
cinder crag
ill change his contact name to "dont message" just so that if i get close to doi...
Yesss do that
untold python
aaand done! yippee
cinder crag
Yippee!
untold python
thanks for pulling me to my senses i really appreciate it lmao