I don't feel like he's attracted to me and it's ruining my mental health

[ashen flume]

I've been dating this guy for 8 months and he barely wants to have NFSW with me and whenever I do send him inappropriate photos he just replies with a limited response and I feel there's no effort, he always says he's tired all the time I hate this, I just wish he could match my freak 😓

[silk spear]

no nfsw doesnt mean that he doesnt like you

maybe he has some sexual insecurities

or

he is scared his pictures be leaked

[green current]

Can you go into more detail? Just because he doesn't wanna be nsfw doesn't mean he doesn't love you

[ashen flume]

I understand but sometimes in certain situations it feels like he doesn't care like I'd like him to care

[ashen flume]

I think so as well and I've been trying to help him through it and telling him that he doesnt need to worry and I love his body for the way it is

[ashen flume]

Well I'm not saying he doesn't love me I think my main issue is the fact he doesn't really care enough to react you know 😭

[glad musk]

I'm really sorry to hear you're feeling this way. It sounds frustrating when you're putting effort into your relationship and it feels like your partner isn't matching your energy or desires. It's understandable that you might feel hurt or confused if he's not being as enthusiastic about intimacy or responding to your efforts in the way you hope.

There could be several reasons behind his behavior, and it might not necessarily reflect a lack of care for you or the relationship. It's possible that he's dealing with stress, exhaustion, or other personal challenges that affect his energy or interest in intimacy. Sometimes, people can get tired or distracted, and it can take a toll on how they connect with their partner physically and emotionally.

However, the most important thing is to communicate openly with him about how you're feeling. Try to express your needs and concerns without sounding accusatory or blaming him. You might say something like:

"I've noticed that recently, when I try to be intimate or send you photos, you seem distant or not as engaged. I really enjoy being close to you and would love for us to share more of that connection. I just want to understand how you're feeling and if there's anything I can do to make things better."

This kind of conversation could give him the opportunity to open up about what's going on in his life. He might have personal reasons for his behavior that you aren't aware of, and having a heart-to-heart might help both of you find a way to balance things out.

If, after that, he still doesn't seem interested in meeting you halfway or respecting your needs, you might need to reconsider whether your emotional and physical needs are being met in this relationship. Ultimately, both partners should feel valued and fulfilled.

Would you like advice on how to approach the conversation, or are you seeking support in understanding how to navigate this situation?

[ashen flume]

Thank you so much for your kind words and thoughtful advice ❤️ It really helps to hear that my feelings are valid and that there could be other reasons behind his behavior, I think you're right with having an open and honest conversation is the best way to move forward. I’ll try approaching him with understanding and focus on expressing how I feel without placing blame 😅

[glad musk]

you're welcome!

:))

[ashen flume]

However I do feel like most of our conversation he dominates them I did try and conversate it yesterday and he kept on saying hes tired and frustrated about me

But I'll try again and see if it changes

[glad musk]

i think if you've tried so many times atp you should find a man who appreciates you and adores you for your personality and your body

[ashen flume]

Thank you I do love him so I'll try my hardest to make it work ❤️

[ashen flume]

Nevermind guys it worked I didn't even discuss it with him he just came home and showed me affection 😻

Thank you all 😊

[silk spear]

nasty gurl

[dreamy kraken]

Im sure he cares about you