I don't know what to do

[frank light]

I feel like I should have never asked to start over

I hate hurting people

Idk what it is though, cause part of the reason why i originally ended it is because I was questioning myself (sexuality wise)

It was my first relationship

[fierce socket]

That's probably true yeah

There's nothing particularly wrong in not being ready, but the rational decision to make when you're not ready for something is to...not do it.

[frank light]

yea

i feel so stuck rn

I really care abt him, I can't let him down again

but at the same time, I want to take care of myself

I have finals coming up and I'm feeling very overwhelmed and anxious

[fierce socket]

He's being hurt and you're also being hurt.
If you try to suppress your anxiety and pretend everything is fine, you'll mess it up even harder.
Calling it quits seems like the minimum-damage option.

[frank light]

he wasn't doing great after the initial breakup

it was really scary

i just feel like its all my fault

but i didn't mean to do any harm

it was out of my control

[fierce socket]

So are you supposed to stay with someone you don't want to stay with just because what they might do? Would you expect this to end up in a healthy relationship? :3

[frank light]

We had a very healthy relationship before. We were very good at communication and were on the same page

[frank light]

when i say scary, I mean i hate seeing people hurt

he didn't do anything bad

[fierce socket]

Everything seems good in the beginning. Just focus on what you need to do in the present.

[frank light]

thats what im trying to do

but then he's getting anxiety because of the uncertainty

and scared i will leave at any second

[fierce socket]

The uncertainty is because you haven't made up your mind yet

[frank light]

i know

idk how long that will be

he says he needs to know in the next 3-6months

but im really overwhelmed

he's great at understanding but im scared he won't understand that

[fierce socket]

Sounds like a generous amount of time tbh

[frank light]

it just sucks not being able to make a freaking decision