#Attachment/Obessesive Issues

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sage raft
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well well well

arctic yew
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ATOP

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WHAT I DO

dense flume
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It seems like your problems are more about internal anxiety, maybe try focusing on healing and helping yourself before trying for any more relationships for now ❤️

sage raft
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I'm reading wait

arctic yew
arctic yew
dense flume
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also you lowkey sound like a sugar daddy in the 4th paragraph 😭😭

arctic yew
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STOP

sage raft
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yeah at a young age the last thing you should be doing is funding someone's nitro

arctic yew
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IT'S NOT LIKE THAT

dense flume
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LMAOOO

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FUNDING HER NITRO

arctic yew
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she says like

dense flume
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hey bae I’ll treat you right go ahead and fund my nitro

arctic yew
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i want a man that can buy me things

sage raft
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remember you have chemcials hormones you are naiive naturally rn

arctic yew
arctic yew
dense flume
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you seem cute

sage raft
arctic yew
dense flume
arctic yew
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NO BC

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we clicked

dense flume
arctic yew
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mira how old r u

dense flume
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16

sage raft
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okay i can see the problem already

dense flume
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u?

sage raft
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no

dense flume
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no 😓

arctic yew
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STOP

dense flume
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HELPPPPP

sage raft
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ash

arctic yew
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yea

sage raft
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you won't find what you're looking for

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this isn't the path to happiness

dense flume
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there is so no path 😭

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you have to create it

arctic yew
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she was my happiness

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but i started relying on her being it too much

sage raft
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no

arctic yew
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so now i aint got nith

sage raft
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She induced a chemical hormone in your brain called oxcytocin and dopamine

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be real with your self

dense flume
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LOLLL

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yep women are fun

sage raft
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women are boring

dense flume
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oh you’re gay my bad

sage raft
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no

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what

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stop

dense flume
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oh?

arctic yew
sage raft
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IM NOT GAY

dense flume
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I thought we were in the same community for a minute

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hm…

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it’s okay to be who u are 😓

arctic yew
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how would i remove it then

sage raft
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being gay is a mental illness....

dense flume
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HELPPP

arctic yew
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what happens if im near over her n she messages me again

dense flume
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Damn I guess original doesn’t love all

sage raft
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i do

dense flume
arctic yew
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who do u love

dense flume
sage raft
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i love everyone

arctic yew
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do u like a girl rn

dense flume
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Men are supposed to chase who they really love

sage raft
dense flume
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If you really love her try to get her back

arctic yew
dense flume
sage raft
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im not gay

arctic yew
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we both egotistical

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if i chase

sage raft
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chase mira

arctic yew
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she'll only thrive off of it

sage raft
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she wants you frrr

dense flume
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I agree with this statement

arctic yew
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as much as that'd be nice it doesnt quite work like that...

dense flume
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If you don’t work with someone leave

sage raft
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yeah

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just be happy

dense flume
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^

arctic yew
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okay ill try

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thank you for ur advice

lone viper
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just try reaching out

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and maybe ask then how they think of you

arctic yew
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nahhh

lone viper
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ask of them to be honest so you know for sure your not just chasing ghosts

arctic yew
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shes talking to another dude rn bro

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she would of medsaged me these oast

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8days

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if she wanted smt to do w me

lone viper
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when my now ex and i first started talking, they were talking to another person

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and they weighed both of us

arctic yew
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yea Ex

lone viper
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ended recently

arctic yew
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oh

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why though

lone viper
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we were together for 2 years

arctic yew
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oh

lone viper
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no communication on thier part

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and they had past trauma

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im sure if they really liked you they would pick you over said boy

arctic yew
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exactly

lone viper
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and if they dont then just again move on

arctic yew
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i dont think she does really like me

arctic yew
lone viper
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how would you know?

arctic yew
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she act like she liked me n all

lone viper
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was it platonic?

arctic yew
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idk

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i couldnt tell

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i just know that

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i think ive ignored her and annoyed her too much

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to the point shes done w me

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which is fair

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but i js hate it

lone viper
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then take what you made mistakes on and fix them so you can become a better candidate in the future

arctic yew
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and when i think abt what she might be sayin to this dude and her laughing w him n stuff

lone viper
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its ok to dwell now on the mistakes you made in the past

arctic yew
arctic yew
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ur right

lone viper
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yeah man

arctic yew
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if she messages me again

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i migjt try fix it

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if not ig its how it was supposed to b

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appreciate u anyway bro

lone viper
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if she reaches out then just be honest lowkey

arctic yew
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she thrives of boys chasing n stuff

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shes full of ego

lone viper
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this is how ive been feeling about you and i know you might not feel the same but i just wanted to let you know, etc etc

lone viper
arctic yew
lone viper
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like

arctic yew
lone viper
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removed from this person are you usually just true to yourself

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you do things for YOU and not for other people

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if your not thats something you can also work on

arctic yew
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i think so im not sure

lone viper
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being more honest for yourself

arctic yew
arctic yew
lone viper
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women like honest men

arctic yew
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yea i get thag

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but what does this mena right

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she was talking to me

lone viper
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mhm

arctic yew
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it semeed firn and like she was havjng fun

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this dude comes online

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conversation drops for like 15min

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like stuff like dat

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hurts me n js pis me off

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which makes me think like maybe i shuld js give up on her but mybe she do like me

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like im jus in the middle

lone viper
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honestly dating is kind of a competition

arctic yew
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yea

lone viper
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she prolly has more fun and enjoys talking to this person more than you

arctic yew
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thats what i thought tbh

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im like

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a last resort type shi

lone viper
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its good though sometimes because it allows you to study and realize what something you can improve on to increase your chances

arctic yew
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i think it jus depends on the girl

lone viper
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thats something you need to take from this

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more than anything

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i mean look

arctic yew
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ive been talking to ankther girl at the same time

lone viper
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like

arctic yew
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bc im friends w her

arctic yew
lone viper
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would a girl like a straight forward guy whos funny and honest or a guy who ghosts her for a few days at a time

arctic yew
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i get that

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but i only ghost her cuz i feel like

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she'll get bored of me if i talk to her for too long

lone viper
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dont get how that works

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i guess thats just 2006-2008 dating

arctic yew
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its like

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if you give them attention

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they like it

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so if yoi take it away for a day or twk

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they crave it or atleasy thats how i thoight it was

lone viper
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but isnt the whole point of dating to establish a special connection with someone

arctic yew
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on call

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"i want my man to be a little toxic"

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or sum like dat

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but then i be toxic

lone viper
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red flags

arctic yew
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she tell me she sensitive and it hurts her

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has me tweakin

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now i typing this

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makes me think

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she pribbaly betger for that dude tbh

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i cant b dealin w rhat shi

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its just we clicked so well like i felt an acgual connection

lone viper
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sometimes we need to let the fish go to see the bigger catch ahead

arctic yew
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u righth

lone viper
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and we use the mistakes that we made losing the so called "catch" to ensure the big catch is a success

arctic yew
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im talking to another girl rn and she seems like she likes me but it doesnt hit the same

arctic yew
lone viper
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you were talking to 2 at the same time buddy

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its very possible

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if you dont it just means your not attracting the right people

arctic yew
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because if one leaves me im not jus alone n depressed

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ig its selfish or smt idk what it is

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but i jus feel like i need a backup so im not cooked when one leaves

lone viper
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brother

arctic yew
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ik bit of a braindead take

lone viper
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this just seems like your using people for thier attention and not because you actually like them

arctic yew
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no bro

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its not like thag

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its bc i get attached very easily i thinn

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and the first girl i got attached to and actually liked

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when we stopped talking i wasnt talking to no one else

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so i was jus wondering what i shuld even do

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she got a bf n shi

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i was stoll stuck on her

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stalkin her shi n stuff

lone viper
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what makes you attracted to a girl

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good looking, successful,

arctic yew
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uhhh

lone viper
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or if she gives you attention shes the one

arctic yew
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this is probably why i get fked over

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but like

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my main attraction is probably a toxic ish girl

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or like

lone viper
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abg type

arctic yew
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a girl thats depressed or smt

lone viper
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jesus

arctic yew
lone viper
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asian baby girl

arctic yew
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the girl im talking ab is arab

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she was getting bombed

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shes in lebannon

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is it wrong i wanted her to die

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so badly

lone viper
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bro what

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man i regret taking up this job sometimes

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jk

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but the hell

arctic yew
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SORRY

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bro

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i jus feel like

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if im not gonna get her

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id literallyo

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rather her blown to smithereens

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or like

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she becomes an amputee

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with no legs

sage raft
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Lmaoaoao

arctic yew
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just the worst thing idk

sage raft
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it's not wrong don't worry

arctic yew
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thank you

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but hey she said shi like im gonna kms and i was saying dont do it

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so i wasnt comepltey harsh

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to her face

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i just hoped she would to myself

sage raft
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she won't

lone viper
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idk

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whole things kinda weird

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i dont online date so i dont know the dynamics well

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i just know in a traditional relationship you want to have a person who has the least red flags as possible because less drama

arctic yew
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yes ur right

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thank u

cyan ravine
cyan ravine
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no cuz what in the sugar daddy coating was buying her nitro a good idea

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the way ash frased it as "funding"

dense flume
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LMAO

cyan ravine