Im not afraid to talk to women, ive had a gf before, but for like two years despite all my efforts and successes I haven’t gotten any closer to finding someone who likes spending time with me. Dating apps have never worked for me, and I don’t have many opportunities to meet people irl. It’s getting to the point where it’s starting to really hurt my already bad self esteem. I just need to know what to change and how to stop this constant reminder of my frequent failures.
#What am I doing wrong ?
worthy shell
vocal mesa
Me personally, I really do not think it’s a bad thing that you haven’t found someone romantically. It seems like you are struggling with self esteem and want validation. But why can’t you find self esteem and validation in yourself first. Coming from a girl, we can sense if you are self assured. For girls, that is the most attractive thing a man can have. So if you really want to find the “change”, you should focus on yourself and the girl will come to you
hazy elm
Im not afraid to talk to women, ive had a gf before, but for like two years desp...
Honestly, the worst thing for a relationship is to be looking for a relationship, because eventually you aren't really looking for that special someone, you're looking for somebody to fill the role
I got out of a year-and-a-half relationship, my first serious one to be completely honest, and that failed we saw eachother as boyfriend/girlfriend and not Wyatt/her name if that makes sense
And I'm going to tell a tale I've seen time and time again that people never seem to understand
One person has self-esteem issues
the other person is very outwardly-affectionate
This person feels good because of the affection and they start dating
some maybe 6, 9, 12, etc months, eventually, you look at your relationship and realize there really isn't much substance
this happens all the time