#Me n my BF

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ebon grail
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I said smth hurtful to him.

I’m kinda scared because he said “I can’t be with someone that can’t love themselves more than their partner”

Then I said “Then I guess we can’t be together, because i’m trying but school and my family put more sht on my back than I can handle.”

He said that my response hurt and I felt so guilty.

Idk why I said what I said, I say things without thinking so much it’s bad.

I’m scared he might take it into consideration too.

I tried texting him this morning but no response, what do I do in this situation? I’m out of ideas…

broken yoke
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Advice for relationships: never have them

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🤑

harsh peak
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A boy here, though single as hell. The only reasonable and obvious thing to do in this scenario is to apologize, sincerely apologize, try to make amends and get back on equal footings, and then think of how you want this relationship to go. Talk to him. If you really do love him then you can keep the relationship going, if you truly dont have much time to spend with him/ busy with other stuff or feel this relationship is more of a hassle, the best thing you could do is to talk with him and break up, for the sake of yours and him. Of course, this is only my opinion.

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Talking with him, trying to understand him is the probably the most important.

ebon grail
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I have no problem communicating with people and understanding them when it comes to stuff like this… it’s just his typing is a little messy.. 😭😭

ebon grail
harsh peak
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You could also just give him some space

ebon grail
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I am

harsh peak
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To reflect, think, ect...

ebon grail
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I just ask him to not ignore me all day

harsh peak
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He's been ignoring you all day?

ebon grail
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so far, yes

harsh peak
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Did you try apologizing or did he block you or sth?

ebon grail
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I tried apologizing

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I said sorry

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I was paranoid a little given to the fact I said what I said and asked if we weren’t together anymore

harsh peak
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Im assuming you didnt only just write "sorry"

ebon grail
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yeah I didn’t

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I wrote more

harsh peak
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Can i see it or... is it too personal?

ebon grail
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it’s nothin too personal rlly, I just said “i’m sorry, idk why i’m like this”

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wasn’t the best choice of words but I couldn’t rlly control my brain

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my emotions get the better of me

harsh peak
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Its understandable

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I would probably go for a more professional, detailed, and long apology letter. That would give a sense of seriousness

ebon grail
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I was just taking that into consideration ngl

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I was kinda debating if I should wait to give the long paragraph when he’s available or not

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what do u think

harsh peak
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Hmmm... i would say, give it now

ebon grail
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okay

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thanks

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it’s cuz I really really like him

harsh peak
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Its alright

ebon grail
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I don’t wanna lose him already man

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even if the situation is small

harsh peak
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I understand. Love is a beautiful thing

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No one would want to lose someone they love or hold dear

ebon grail
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thanks for understanding

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I needed this

harsh peak
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No problem

ebon grail
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I’m just really serious about him, I cried for him

harsh peak
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To love is to destroy, am i right?

ebon grail
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yeah

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got that right

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he’s different

harsh peak
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Good luck

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Wish you the best

ebon grail
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thanks so much!

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I wish you the best luck too

harsh peak
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Thank you

ebon grail
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Is it okay if I dm you if things go wrong?

harsh peak
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Sure

ebon grail
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just in case

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thanks so much

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bless you’re heart

harsh peak
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And bless yours

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I wish you nothing but the best

ebon grail