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inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:11 PM

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yes i am 13 and yes i do understand i am too young

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i still love her or well like her

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even tho she has a boyfriend

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and i chose to not text

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cuz well i didnt want to hurt her again

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i didnt tell her the reason i am becoming more distant

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but it was there

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i am such a loser

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for not coming up to her when she was crying but she did when i was at my low

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but yeah

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why i am like this still

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:14 PM

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so what is the problem?

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:14 PM

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she has a boyfirned

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:15 PM

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violet walrus so what is the problem?

well

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how to put this

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a breakup ? lost of comunication? and a waste of a opportunity

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:15 PM

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call it breakup

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it was your first?

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:16 PM

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yes

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but i made many mistakes

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and hurt her

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like not physically

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but with my stupidity

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and not being able to see into the future

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and not wanting to hurt her more

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:16 PM

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so Get away from her

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:17 PM

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i did

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but she is still in my mind

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:17 PM

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why did you hurt her ?

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:17 PM

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i didnt want to

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:17 PM

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inland portal but she is still in my mind

its normal

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:17 PM

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but i did

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:17 PM

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what makes you to do that?

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:17 PM

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i was selfish

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and we broke up after we still were talking and she wanted to get back

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and i said no

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:18 PM

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why tho?

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:18 PM

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cuz i felt i will be hated

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even more

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by absolutely everybody

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:18 PM

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why do you think that

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:18 PM

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beacuse i know it

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my classmates were talking to me and respecting me less

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when we were dating

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and i was extremly

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well messed up from it

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:19 PM

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When you know you made a mistake. It means you have forgiven yourself

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:19 PM

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i didnt forgive my self

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:20 PM

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you can try again

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:20 PM

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i just accknoledge the mistake

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:20 PM

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violet walrus you can try again

she has a boyfriend

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a perfect one at that

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:20 PM

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how old are you both

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:20 PM

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13 lol

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:20 PM

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her

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:20 PM

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13

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:21 PM

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in the best time in your life . you choice gf?

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why?

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:21 PM

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i dont know

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i really dont

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:21 PM

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im 18 and im still dont have one lol

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:22 PM

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dont know how to respond to that

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sorry

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:22 PM

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why?

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:22 PM

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that i dont know how to respond to that

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i am apologiesing

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:22 PM

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its ok

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you still have a lot to learn

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go enjoy your life
think about her less

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:23 PM

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its impossible

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:23 PM

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no one can help you except you

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:23 PM

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i have been telling my that you dont care about her a bit or i can be doing anything

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she is still there

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:24 PM

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violet walrus no one can help you except you

i know

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:24 PM

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distract yourself

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:24 PM

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but i just dont know how or if its gonna be affected

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:24 PM

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your not my first patient

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you'll be fine

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:25 PM

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yeah i know i will

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its just that the trace will still be there

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:25 PM

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i promise you

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avoid it

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:26 PM

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how

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i cant think about something

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its impossible

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and especially with the things i am not suppose to think about

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:26 PM

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like?

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:26 PM

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like

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its complicated

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its mostly things centred about mental health and her and well things about like death

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like

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suicidal

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thoughts

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:28 PM

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its not worth it
no one is

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i tired but nop

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:28 PM

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you tried?

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:28 PM

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yup

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:28 PM

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man

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like i am sorry

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or wth

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i dont know

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:29 PM

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but i managed to survive

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:29 PM

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i am not sure what to say

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sorry

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:29 PM

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its ok

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Although I do psychology, I need it myself

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too much pressure

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People's problems

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It's hard to manage, but okay

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think about your parents when you thinking about suicidal

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:33 PM

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Wth

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What

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:33 PM

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what what?

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:35 PM

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Well

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To think about my parents

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When feeling suicidal

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Oh wait

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I get it

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:37 PM

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explain what you get

inland portal Oct 6, 2024, 9:38 PM

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That i should think about my parents

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Beacuse they love me

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Or something like that?

violet walrus Oct 6, 2024, 9:38 PM

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its more than just loving you

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they care about you

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thay wanted you to be happy

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they wanted your happiness

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Love your family before it's too late

hardy surge Oct 12, 2024, 3:03 PM

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@inland portal I'm sorry that this guy just went off topic and rambled

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The first breakup is always tough. Trust me I've been through it.

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For the first few months not thinking about it seems impossible

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Tears flow, but in the end, the relationship has been over

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To heal from this, you should indulge in more activities that you enjoy and things that make you happy, spend more time with friends and family, and dont push away the thoughts and feelings you get when you think of her again

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Just embrace it and grieve.

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If you bottle it up, then it'll only come later and will hit you even harder

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You are still young so you have alot of time ahead of you, so use this time to reflect on what exactly went wrong and learn for future relationships ❤️ 🫂

inland portal Oct 12, 2024, 3:25 PM

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thanks it has been 6 days since anyone has typed here im suprised you found it XD

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