#Is it like normal that i kinda dread(?) talking to my gf

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hot leaf
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idk, because i love her alot alot, like id sacrificce everything for her but even so, when i have to interact w her, this like pit forms in my stomach and it goes when shes asleep or unavailable bc shes busy by herself, but otherwise im in this constant state of anxiety and i dont know why, AND NO I DONT WANT TO BREAK UP W HER I LOVE HER SMSMSMSM its probably a one off thing which im generalizing and saying its everytime

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sometimes it gets so bad i contemplate ending my life

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very rarely tho

crimson scaffold
hot leaf
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heya

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i gtg

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say something if u want lol

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bye bye

crimson scaffold
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Yes it's fine very common.. Do you have any problems with communication? or personal issues?

hot leaf
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yeah

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communication

crimson scaffold
# hot leaf communication

Sometimes, differences in communication styles or feeling misunderstood can make conversations feel draining or stressful

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It's pretty hard, but talking about how you're feeling is important, You don't have to make it negative, just being honest about your emotions will help you this way..

hot leaf
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i know but its weird

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i dont understand why i feel like this

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i just

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do.

crimson scaffold
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You should create space for personal time in your communication. It's fine to have quiet moments or take breaks from Talking. Just focus on positive communication

hot leaf
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the quite times fill me with dread as well tho

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like

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if shes home and im just not talking to her

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what if she does something

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id blame myself

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its weird

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I've cornered myself