Hi man, thats fricking terrible really, you dont deserve that, 4 years is a long time and she disrespected you like that?. I know you must be feeling so devastated, and its normal to take time and grieve on this situation though id suggest not for too long. In the case of the girl, end this dont even waste time on her block her and never look back, I know its a really hard thing to do but she betrayed your trust you cant have her in your life or that will destroy you. Youre better than this, and youll eventually come out of it stronger and better, grieve for a bit and then busy yourself with hobbies other things, your wellbeing is the most important here.
#my girlfriend cheated on me multiple times and I don’t know what I should do
toxic nacelle
There are some situations where couples maintain relationship after a situation of betrayal, but from everything ive seen its a shallow relationship afterwards, youll never have the same trust again and that partner might cheat on you again, thats just my perspective.
old turret
There are some situations where couples maintain relationship after a situation ...
Yeah I can’t trust her anymore and for me, honesty is the key in a relationship.
I am currently still struggling though to block her and all that, because I’m starting to miss her. And the problem is, that I will see her almost every day, as she lives in the same city as me.
It’s really tough
She was also my first relationship and I really thought that we would get married and have a family
It just feels so unreal that she cheated on me
toxic nacelle
I belive you man
That is truely terrible and all your feelings right now are genuine and youll miss her for a while
But trust me its only the beggining the more time will pass the more youll realise how much shes unworthy for you
If she tries to talk to you in real life you tell her you want nothing to do with her and to leave you alone
Its hard af but you have to do it man you really do your wellbeing your mental health is MORE important than her always remeber that
There are many awesome girls out there that dont cheat so dont let it harm the way you see relationships and women, because you CAN find better
Though after a relationship as long as that you should take a time to cool off from the relationship game and focus on your wellbeing