how does one just get over feelings?

[worldly patio]

There doesn't seem to be much to do. It's basically over as you said and you don't seem to mesh. What else can be done other than...nothing? :D

[robust echo]

I understand, but what keeps me from just doing nothing are some of the signals I get. I just don't know how to push past the hill of just ignoring my own brain without just vanishing into the void.

[worldly patio]

I don't think the signals are as relevant as you think they are in this case. If you don't mesh and you don't look attractive to him, then two important factors for the success of a relationship are gone. So no matter how badly you want each other, it's not going to help much against that.
Though why would you vanish into the void for disregarding it?

[robust echo]

When I say vanish, it's more like, pulling myself away, ignoring everyone and everything except the important stuff, but we are a tight knit friend group, so I cannot do that without everyone realizing there's something really wrong.

[robust echo]

I know I can't vanish, because that opens a whole other can of worms

[worldly patio]

So, how difficult would moving on from it be?

[robust echo]

I suppose it is all on my own head, if I can ignore everything for long enough, distract myself for long enough. Would that be healthy?

[worldly patio]

Yeah well, it doesn't seem like what you're doing currently is healthy either. If you ignore it long enough and live your life, I'm sure you'll forget eventually.