Maybe you should give him some space?
#my boyfriend wont talk to me and this is going to be the 2nd day he wont talk to me
analog bough
unique merlin
Please understand that your boyfriend is going through a lot right now. I know you meant well, he did too most likely, but at the moment chances are he needs to figure things out. Im sure he will come to you once hes done that. You can DM him occasionally to tell him that youre there for him and check on him, but dont overdo it, let him figure it out.
limber forum
First of all, I understand how desperate you must feel right now, especially when all you want is a reply. I went through something similar when my ex ghosted me, so I get it. But it’s important to give him space to process his emotions.
I suggest sending him a heartfelt message each day, letting him know how you feel and that you're rooting for him. After that, try to occupy yourself throughout the day while staying alert for any notifications from him. Find ways to distract yourself—take a walk, play the piano, or spend time with friends.
Think of your boyfriend like you would a child who needs both space and comfort. No one dislikes receiving thoughtful messages, especially from someone they love. By giving him the space he needs while still showing you care, you’re offering the best of both worlds.
I hope things get better soon.
weak nest
I thank you guys who answered to me even if its just so little people.. Im doing better now, i found things to do and to take my mind off of but i still feel a deep hole inside me. I tried eating today any little i could but it felt like i wanted to throw it up yet i forced it into me. I understand he needs space but i posted this after thinking that he would tell me.
To be clear, this has happened too since we met but i didnt mind it since he was always busy, and he proved to me too he was busy (didnt ask for proof), he loves gardening and i know that takes a lot of time and care so i nevered bothered to force him to dm me. Thank you guys again for helping
unique merlin
Try not to stress out too much, yeah? I know it feels extremely bad and anxiety-inducing because you care so much for him. But its just temporary, and i know you want to care for him as much as you can but in this moment, being there for him by letting him have his time is the best thing you could do already.
If you need to talk it out, just do it here, me or im sure others will help you get your mind off of it. c:
Or DMs if you wish.
limber forum
I thank you guys who answered to me even if its just so little people.. Im doing...
hey glad to hear your doing better . eat well sleep well drink lots of water
weak nest
i ve been thinking a lot more right now, and me and him have a friend, he talks to her but not me (summarizing this), i want to send her this message: "if you wanna be with him atleast tell him why you re not talking to him and if you still even wanna be with him, cause at this point ignoring him 100% of the time wont fix anything for him, and if you love him and also need him it wont fix anything for you either" to tell it to him, would it be a good idea
unique merlin
Who exactly is this girl? And why would you wanna tell her all that?
weak nest
a friend