#I just broke up

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long cave
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my girlfriend and i just broke up . we have been dating for 9 months . really love her however she broke up with me because apparently she has lost feelings . She explained that i was giving her enoguh affection. What happens was , i was juggling between my girl my friends and my studies . I tried my best to manage all of this . I understand my girl friend has no one to talk to except for me so she was upset that i was always busy or talking about something else when we call . that one day she decided to go all out and tell me how i feel . The next day we went out to get things right . However firstly , i was already really sad and stress about the things i have to manage . Secondly ,her best friend was present and i felt uncomfortable to do anything . so that entire day i didnt talk to her and left without a word . thats when she lost her feelings . I asked her why she only took that one incident and think of a break up where others times i did cheer her up . She said " its like when a person giving u candy everyday and one day they suddenly give a rotten egg , u willl remeber that rotten egg the most clearly. "Im upset not because of break up but because we promise not to leave each other and talk it out . However she chose to keep her lost feelings to herself and ghost me before a week later when she told me the truth . she said that she kept to herself because she hope it will go away . She was my first. Even tho i love her alot and i want her back . Im just falling in love with the memories but not her . Im super sad heart broken , angry , confuse . All the feelings are just bombarding me at once. I feel stupid . Whenever i lost feelings for her or want a break up . I dont mention it i just talk to her about it or just pull up a picture of her and make myself love her again . Im meeting her 2 days later for the last time to return and get back our belongings. What shud i do right now im really at my lowest. <@&993332385670246420>

earnest merlin
golden fable
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ik how this shit feels bro

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i know

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trust me

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dm her

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also

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if you cant manage time and have to juggle between friends, gf and studies

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why not study with her

long cave
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but i have convince in a way

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although she says nos econd chances

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ik she wants it coz she broke the no contact rule first

golden fable
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then talk to her u dumbass

graceful meadow
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Lesson learned. Women are never happy. You literally did no wrong to her.
Tell her that you love her but it's unacceptable for her to be so selfish when you have way higher burden of stress than a girl and she's not supporting you on your path to success.
Unless you really were just being a dummy and spending more time with friends than her...

golden fable
long cave
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she didnt wanna give second chances

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i tried to reason w her

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but its just got worse

long cave
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its just

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idk

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im meeting her for the last time tmmro

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im going to crashed out after tmmro

wraith tree
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start again with someone else

long cave
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i fear that

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when i get into new relationship

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everythign reminds me of her

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i cant go into another relationship

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having memories of her

wraith tree
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give yourself time to think

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of course right now you cant think straight

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but take time

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and start again later on

long cave
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mhm

long cave
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guys

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i got over it

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i told myself

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i shudnt be sad

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i love look up to my ex now

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as someone with confidence

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so whenever i feel sads

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or miss her

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i will think of her as a motivation to becoem better

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because i look up on her