The Complicated Dance of Desire: Jealousy, Rejection, and Mixed Signals

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woah

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have you any explanation please?

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let me analyze it what are you looking for particularly

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I wanna understand the whole situation does he loved and if he loved why he rejected me and if didn't love me why he keeps staring ,being jealous and avoiding the other girl he literally acts like he's single maybe it's true that he's signal cuz he's being touchy to other girls before here, I think he just wants hooking with girls or IDK I couldn't understand the situation and his mixed signals

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Maybe he is in the same situation as you and can't decide if your perfect he also might be socially akward towards you what happened when you confessed?

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he rejected me saying that he didn't see me that why and he kept being around, jealous and after a month he dated the other girl that he wasn't interested in here even his best friend was choked and he didn't wanna tell here but she noticed and they brake up and IDK what's their situation right know cuz I saw him kissing here one day I saw him with here he acts so nervous IDK it's really complicated and it's driving me insane

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Before I thought he was confused but he's definitely trying to make you jealous it's like he's taking revenge he's def not into you am keeping it a hundred 💯. It also a waste of resources trying to connect with him ur hitting your head against a brick wall sis 🔥🔥💯💯

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if he want's to make me jealous why he's acting single and what's he's point of making me jealous , when are in the same environ he acts like he don't here he literally stare at me not to his girlfriend sometimes I felt like his obsessed to the point that she noticed that he looks a lot although we had never talked he felt really uncomfortable when I saw them together sometimes I feel sorry for here cuz sh literally begging for his attention she knew inside that he doesn't love here and I saw here multiple time crying. I wanna know if he really doesn't love me he could just met rejected me as simple as that IDK why he's complicating things why he doesn't answer my msgs even though he answered all the people why he's being jealous so nervous why he's being friends with my friends why he stares IDK it's really complicating

he sees me like something superior something high when we talk he always propose like complicated subjects , like we're not on the same level

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when we sat next to each other he felt really nervous , stressed I know that I cloud turn him on easily one day I touched his hair he stood up quickly like bro what the hell !!! one day he left he's girlfriend talking with another girl and start staring at me cuz I'm holding a cat and kissing him and he het jealous from the cat I still remembers his eyes . I'm a cold person in general I seemed like I don't care but I do really care I think like he doesn't believe my feelings or IDK cuz he tried always to talk to my group when we are together but sometimes I act like I never knew him cuz I'm really broken IDK it's complicated

@fluid fable what did you think please?

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He isn't interested in you I am sure of that

Idk it's not really about him being affraid of you

maybe he has 0 interest he's just making you jealous for some other reason idk that reason it depends if you give more context but there's 0 connection imo

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ok thank you I appreciate your help

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idk but if he's not interested why he noticed every detail he asked me why I'm depressed If I need help I felt like he noticed those small detail he literally copying my actions and we I stopped talking to him he tried to reach to me , so the last days I participated on an online competition he was one of the team member so you could ask the team menbers questions he literally was involved and answered every que even it's not for him he used to compare himself to otherboy that I talked to idk what did you think

he noticed the small detail there's one time when I told him that I preferred his wavy hair so the next day he came with his wavy hair when I told him to quit smoking he literally quit directly

@fluid fable what did you think ?

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maybe he views you as a friend I think a lot of people are like that imo he cares about you but doesn't want to be with you. I think you misread him trying to make you jealous all I am trying to say from a male perspective if someone you are really interested in confesses on text and u like that person back then there's no reason not to write yes

Ik you might think he is socially akward but no one is that affraid

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IDK I knew he has issues , and he has literally a lot of personalities , he took medicines also, and he told me that he has a commitment issues IDK before I told my best friend she really noticed and told that this gay is really interested IDK what the hell is wrong with him IDK he wants me to love him but he don't wanna be with me btw we are not that close I used to ignored him and don't talk to him. so he's repeating he's freshmen year so when I asked him about his grade or how is going he lied to me even though he get bad markets but when my friend that he become friend with here this year after I became a friend with here at first he told here that he get bad markets IDK when we are in group he came and start talking with my new friends that he wasn't friend with at all last days he sent a message to my new friend he start greeting here like he used to talk to here

@fluid fable what did you think

also when I appear he start moving like a crazy man

he pass like a 1000 times in front of me

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Like I said before maybe you really love him and maybe twisting facts and perspectives how about you ask him but if he truly wanted to be with you he would have said yes this isn't a movie where the mc needs time to think or get ready if he would have loved you he would have said yes. I am saying the harsh truth here but he might want you as a friend overall you should still message him and ask why he's been so weird maybe it's time to get out of ur comfort zone

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@fluid fable honestly I wasn't interested at all at first I started liking him after I felt like his inti me IDK if he really dating or not cuz last year he was with another girl and the kissed ans when I asked the told me that they are not dating and when he kissed here he's literally looking at me in the eyes like I waiting for he's rection and this year when I ignore him or don't talk to him he hugged or IDk his ex . Honestly, I wish that I was the one who twisting facts but even my friends noticed his nonsense like they asked where did he pop out and they didn't use to talk , they really felt cringe, when I'm not around them he starts like he's waiting for him to pop pout, there's one day when we were chatting in a group he was with us and when he left he insists like he's going back after that he left us and when he's going back home he came to our direction to see if we still there even it wasn't his direction also he ghosted his best friend she was chocked out of nowhere he acted like he didn't know here even they were bestie for years I think he's the problem not me twisting facts

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even the girl that he's being touchy with it comes days when he acts like he never knew here she literally touching him and he didn't even talked to here like he even exists

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Yeah like I said he's not interested in you but its valid that he acts strange around you maybe he's not trynna make a fool of himself but he's not interested

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@fluid fable thank you I really appreciate your help

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welcome what would rate my therapy

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@fluid fable Honestly I don't know there are many things that I don't get maybe I visiting a doctor but I really appreciate your help

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@fluid fable what

@fluid fable what's it's name I will take a look

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psychologyforeveryone226

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@fluid fable are you an expert?

or it's your hobby ?

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Not really a therapist I have courses in CBT it's sort of a professional hobby if u wana talk to more qualified people dm me

I know few people who'll help you for free

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not yet

@fluid fable again thank you for your help

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